In the case of Oluchi, I dont think she married this white dude becos of money..She's in fashion and hey she is bond to fall in love with a white dude.This people
dominate the fashion industry..I dont see anything bad in it.One man's food , is another Man's poison.As for is a NO! NO!

31yrs ke? That's serious ooo.He looks like his in mid 40's atleast..certainly not 31yrs ..lol ..I guess he didnt know that is a criminal offence to say such words in Western world..Is a pity that is honeymoon will be remember with this event,dispruting the all thing...I pity the wife sha..

Here is the thing..My understanding of illeratacy is if he can't write nor read in any language..Can he read and write?True is not  an easy thing to brush him up a grown up Man to ones taste..Look,there are so many so called graduate out there that are worse than a 6grade dropout.

If i were the lady and I'm very cultured myself and i will invite etiquette coach to the house once in a while and we all partake and not just him, so that he doesnot feel left out..Money is nothing  compare to happiness and fullfillment of marriage.Two things before proceedign to the alter with him.
 
1) I'm going to make sure that we have a lengthy courtship to get to know him and his ability to take correction lightly and learn new things in life.

2)And love and cherish eachother unconditionally, regardless of Money or fame before taking things to the next level with him.

Is damn too long..lol

It does work. I'm in one right now and I'm and we love eachother .But the only problem is I crave for his touch*wink* always and is killing me softly.lol.All the same is worth it as long as the other person is real and not into it for the wrong reason.I say go for it.

Jeez, na beans?

Sad!!! I implore you to go and see his parent and let them know about the development, since he is indisposed and no where to be found. You have to find a way for him to be responsible for his kid. I tell you, when your kid is all grown up and well to do he will want to know about his father. Please take heart and move with your life abeg. Dont let this experience change who are as  a person or change the way see Men. The only thing is to OPEN YAH EYES WIDE OPEN NEXT TIME. I pray God will vindicate you and find you everlasting JOY. Stay strong my sister, God is your strength.