This is truly disheartening. It really does bother me that there was a rope hanging from the tree in the first place. That is recklessness when children are involved. That area does not sound well-equipped for harboring children in my opinion. Sad.
I see no harm in your post personally and would say just use precaution while traveling there. I was born and raised in the United States but my family is Nigerian and sadly its dangerous in general. I would say by all means go, but just be generally careful. Do your best to travel amongst people that you are familiar with and keep your personal belongings plus those that are most valuable in very safe keeping. Its sad that the country is in some of the conditions you find but of course..like all places, its a work in progress. My parents never sent me because of how different it is from when they grew up which is sad because of all of the things I'd missed out on..but I finally went now that I am an adult and had fun for the most part. So my tidbit to you would be go, just be super careful! I hope you get to go and have fun!
I hate when there are ridiculous postings such as this one. Anyone can find love..each case depends person to person. Just because someone is a single mother does not prevent them from having anything or anyone that they deserve. Investigate why they are single in the first place...Its the men that create problems that force them to leave.
I have always felt that out of all Nigerian movies and their lead actresses that Genevieve Nnaji is the prettiest. I've never thought anyone else was lol.