Great advice sophiebaby. Didn't think a girl could ever think like this...lol.
A lot of the time, girls (even guys), are always fearful and desperate leading them to be suspicious all the freaking time.
A relationship that may otherwise work can crumble cos of this.
Try not to be too desperate and do all you can in the relationship like said before.
If he's yours, things will work out, else no worries, you'll find yours.

Erm, i dont get. What did he do wrong in these pictures....taking pictures with clothed girls??

More grease to your elbow Mr. Sanusi...one of the few doing their jobs.

Absolute malady like Honourable Obahiagbon would say.

what has happened here is more-or-less like a big misunderstanding, let me dissect it for you: Because of the VERY few Nigerians abroad giving us bad names, a lot of foreigners think badly of us and they generally preconceive us as bad which in turn as triggered Nigerians to preconceive foreigners as judgemental even when they are genuinely not. My points

1) Nigeria has its problem and apart from certain areas that may be dangerous most places are peaceful and Ibadan is a particularly peaceful place.

2) Truthfully, as you said, there is the issue of robbers and people thinking you're rich and wanting to take advantage of you or rob you which is quite dangerous too but if your Husband is a true Nigerian/Ibadan boy this shouldn't be a problem. I say this because, he should know the right places to take you, where to go and not to go, right time to go, how to go about things without attracting attention and all of that.

3) If you don't trust your husband and think he might be lying then he probably is or you're just an impatient lady. You must be careful about this cos trust is important. To be safe and enjoy Nigeria you need a lot of things like money, careful planning etc, can your guy afford this, is he busy most of the time and all and have you considered all this (or are you just selfish). On the other hand, do you trust him enough cos he truly may be HIDING something (like a wife in Nigeria like people have said....lol).

4) You cannot judge by comments on this post because it seems to be an unfortunate misunderstanding caused by preconception from both ends. Nigerians are generally nice and welcoming. But one thing you must learn from this post is to be careful how you pose questions next time (in such sensitive scenarios) so as not to trigger....you know.

5) Lastly, to get the best picture about Nigeria, talk to Nigerians. There are loads every where (including Poland) and you must know a few other than your husband.

Guys, please don't talk without facts. "Nigeria is rich enough to make every youth rich": how is that possible? If you share N280 million among 100 thousand people, that is just N2,800. These militant guys hide under the disguise of fighting for the people meanwhile all they are interested in is their own selfish interest.
Don't get me wrong, am not saying people shouldn't fight for what is theirs but their are more sensible and diplomatic ways. And if they are going to be killing people, they should make sure they kill all their leaders and chiefs who are embezzling the money that are supposed to be for their people.

Hisss.............all this craziness better stop. That boy is looks mixed race, that man better ask his wife questions!!! Hisssss....again.