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Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: GIRL PREACHES CHRIST IN A MOSQUE AMIST JUMAT SERVICE |
on: 18-08-2010 06:15 PM
| | Lack of knowledge would make people do such a blaspheme things! She even do not know what she was saying,like she said, "Jesus is lord" Which Bible does that girl read?................because in John 3:16 it says, "FOR GOD SO LOVED THE WORLD, THAT HE GAVE HIS BEGOTTEN SON, THAT WHOSOEVER BELIEVES IN HIM WILL NOT PERISH, BUT HAVE ETERNAL LIFE" According to John, Jesus is not lord but a son of God. That girl should be forgiven for her lack of knowledge, and there cannot be TWO LORD WHATSOEVER.........GOD IS ONE, THE SUPREME.................NOT COMPARABLE IN ANY FORM!!!!!!!!!!!!!! | | | | |
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Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: GIRL PREACHES CHRIST IN A MOSQUE AMIST JUMAT SERVICE |
on: 18-08-2010 07:33 AM
| They are asking for justice?
She 'insulted' Allah, so let them allow Allah to fight for himself, He doesnt need humans to help him........she was extreme and the timing was wrong......but then they have to apply wisdom in order not to let innocent people suffer because of this........
that's in your religion's concept in which you compare the one you worship with man so whenever he's abused he should fight-back as men do.
in our religion (Islam), one of the reasons of legalising Jihad (the Holy-War) is to curb such acts from the likes of that girl who, don't learn to tolerate others and their doctrine; or do you expect Allah to descend from heaven for every dis-regard towards him.
As at now, i think the concerned Muslims are applying the best wisdom they could; it's left for the administration to co-operate and be just to avoid re-occurence and.....
i'm sure we all know the country we belong to, if justice is not done people will take the law in to their hands hence.....Thats not the meaning of Jihad please, its the kind of you that is allowing this kind of thing to happen. You are refering to Jihad as violence. JIHAD is an internal struggle to maintain faith, the struggle to improve the Muslim society and not fighting people or killing people. May Allah forgive you for making people to have very wrong impressions about Islam. Call her and ask her what she know about Jesus and you tell her what you know peacefully and not by saying things that suits your own thinking (this is an act of Jihad). Read the Quran very well and stop then think why each verse you read is written that way. A good muslim accepts Allah's messengers. Good though, that person has no hint whatsoever what jihad really means.................thank you for correction. Is recommended people read before saying things in public............... | | | | |
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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: just 4 men & ladies |
on: 17-08-2010 09:00 PM
| no matter wht kinda fight u havin, u both shudnt use violence on each otha
You have spoken like a politician,however, you have also to know kindly that every society has got their own problems. You have talked of racism-Don't blame nigerians for racism because racism is Europe and America is worse-you need to see for yourself,like be there. Europe and America are two unique hell and paradise...............they have enough problems! Our Nigeria, yes we acknowledged kindly, there are problems but we take pride for what God has given Nigerians!!!! | | | | |
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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: just 4 men & ladies |
on: 16-08-2010 06:40 PM
| | A lady enjoyed her former boy friend beating...........!!!!......I doubt the authenticity of this story, however, I will not have my sisters beaten, and I will not beat any lady whatsoever.
Real men do not battle with women, real men are one who are sensitive, and full men are one who ladies will find peace in their hands. Ladies will not at any point appreciate beating, and if any man try beating a lady to correct her, then be sure you are not doing the right thing-you will loose her. God created ladies for you, just for you with much different beautity, so be good men for your own good and for the goodness of ladies.............trust me, you will find most ladies totally very harmless!! | | | | |
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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Settling Arguements |
on: 16-08-2010 06:39 AM
| | [size=14pt]Am back here again because I found this topic very interesting! Well comrades, when having arguments in a relationship, you need to use what I called PERSONALITY DEMENSIONS when arguing...........
P-rovide a basis for understanding
E-xpress yourself appropriately
R-espect individual differences
S-succeed with style
O-organize efficient and tangible reasons
N-egotiate more effectively than emotionally
A-appreciate yourself and others
L-earn to improve communications and argue to understand, and not to win
I-dentify potential problems early, that is, before starting arguements
T-ake steps to avoid taking things personal
Y-ield higher productivity rather than blame someone for not doing certain thing.
D-elegate tasks appropriately
I-nteract with others more intellectually than peronally
M-anage others more efficiently
E-levate morale and enthusiasm
N-ourish interpersonal relationships
S-upport, and encourage others while arguing positively
I-nfluence others positively
O-ptimize your performance, react more friendly to create understanding
N-arrow gaps and differences to enable you draw a conclusion
S-ucceed with style and ease!!!
Once used correctly, my personality demensions will work very well in settling arguements. Sex, women are very clever........so make NO mistake to use sex to settling their problems;they will appreciate if you state practical facts rather than emotional interventions.Arguements need practical facts and not emotional ne[/size]eds. | | | | |
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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Settling Arguements |
on: 16-08-2010 03:55 AM
| | SETTLING ARGUEMENT, INTERESTING TOPIC............
Many people get it wrong responsing to this topic, but firstly, arguements in our lives is very healthy and important. Having said that however, skillful and excellent ways of arguements is a key thing here; understanding how to argued with your parents, your sisters, your wife, your lecturere, and with general members of the public is the lone trait that will distinguished you from other people who cannot acknowledge arguements. In settling arguements, you must fully have clearer understanding of yourself, and understand the other people you are trying to argue with. In a relationship, a wife will argued for ultimate benefits and long term goals while a husband will argued reasonably, responsibly, and objectively..............and will not try to use sex as a way of winning or settling a problem, and this is because for most intellectual women, they would regard you as being INCOMPETENT-BECAUSE WHEN TRYING HAVING SEX WITH THEM, YOU ARE DEALING WITH THEM EMOTIONAL AND NOT MENTALLY, AND YET ARGUEMENT REGUIRES MENTAL THINKING. Vital things, sex is an Emotional needs, and Arguement happens when there is a problem or misunderstanding, meaning that problems affect your brain, your state of mind, NOT your emotional state.YOUR MENTAL STATE AND YOUR EMOTIONAL STATE ARE VERY FAIRLY RELATED, BUT THEY ARE NEVER THE SAME WHATSOEVER, YET THE TWO MUST BE BALANCED. Sex may not counts.......I will be using what I called Personality Dimentions in responsing to this topic, so, see you later while a I will be coming with my response. | | | | |
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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Picking Up Your Husbands Call "Good/Bad" |
on: 13-08-2010 08:46 PM
| | Your wife is you best friend, the last person to say a word to your ears, and by picking your call-there should be no bad. The thing is most women who do not trust their husband would worry and men who do not trust themseves would yell at their wives once they picked their calls. Almost there must be No much PRIVACY between a wife and a husband, but both must be good to be good for each other and for themseves!!!!! I wouldn't yell at my wife for picking my call, why would she be called Mrs.me if she can even haldle my phone. | | | | |
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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Best way to handle a stubborn wife |
on: 13-08-2010 08:38 AM
| | Stubornness is a unique characteristic trait which is not harmful, however, handling stubborn people can be both easy and hard. If you have a stubborn wife, you must firstly be very compromising, take most things that go around lightly but illustrate great sense of responsibilities, and do not be too hard. Laugh, smile, and be happy. Make her understands you are not substracting or adding or trying to change her, and this of course will make her appreciate you then she will thinks you understand her-this will create friendly environment between you and her. Once environment is friendly, love comes, happiness comes, and love and happiness brings compromise, and compromise is the CORE thing that can bring two different people together. Once there is a compromise between two parties, there is always a very strong bonding!
You must NOT be temperamental when handling stubborn people, and particuarly women-your wife. Women would love you to love them the ways they are, and if you do so, they will love it, and this will cause them to change voluntarily..................!! | | | | |
