Good question

Such men will then turn to donkey there 

@ wunzie, i tot i was the only one observing that 

Really? but God did not in any part of the scriptures, told the men to hit their wives; or could it be that am yet to come across it?

Abi o

What about the guys that keep many gfs at a ones, when u asked, is either they say is their  this or that, thereby deceiving innocent girls by telling them u r d only one in my life; or should i talk about those married men that denied their wives 'cos of theirs selfish interest; e:g Is rampant seeing married men dating other women, unlike married women, lets called a spade a  spade,  hiss . I believe no reasonable girl will like to date two men at one, in as much as the guy don't fool around. 

Aren't u tired squatting BS   

Hehehhehhehe maybe this time around we have to write it somewhere else imao

Exactly

I just tire 4 d babe shaa 

To start with, i think this post suppose to be in confession; from what you wrote, u said the guy has been lying to u about his relationship with the other lady? and at the same time, u confirmed he was good to u? contradictions of words. If i where u i think i had rather put a stop to that, 'cos chances are that he may actually be married to the woman in question or may be planning such with her, remember they have kid together like u said; in other u sticking to the relationship, is a kind of home breaker; don't forget u may like to have your own family:---------------If the case was that their relationship is now based on their kid alone, no more emotional involvement; that would 've been a different case all together; there wouldn't 've been a problem at all; from what i understood he want to be with both of u; so the ball is at ur ....:    

That is what love and marriage is all about, that's why am little scare thinking about marriage

I think both of them need to reach a compromise no matter what it takes, in other to live together, i don't buy the idea of separate life after marriage .

Actually being an extrovert introvert is not bad, but i think either of the two need a bit of the other to be balance, else having just one at 100% may not be all that good, 'cos when one speak and think at the same time always (extrovert) , when it comes to a serious matter there must be a problem as a result of introvert  deficiency, e:g in Exams or Interviews.

On the other hand, 100% introvert will equally find it difficult when it comes to associating with others, thereby making him/her to feel isolated when in public, e:g not update with current infos, when comparing with extrovert, and does less better, if theirs' work has to do with relating with too many people in theirs' everyday work, but when it comes to Exams and Interview, normally they ought to do better, 'cos they have more of alone time.



More of introvert than extrovert. 65/35

You are welcome D P

Though it may be hard if u really love the person, but taking alone time to think about the events that leads to the break-up/heart-break will help, check if it was ur fault, and try work on them, 'cos chances are that both of u may reconcile, or fall in love with someone that has the same character, if u r done working on yourself (i meant if u where faulty); when next u encounter the same issue it will be of less drama to u:

Having said that; jumping into another relationship wouldn't be way out, 'cos that 'ill easily attract insecurities..., u may keep a casual date to while away time without anything serious, don't even think about bedding..; try and engage yourself in things u love doing, hanging-out with friends', comedy movies will help too; music, browsing etc, but above all, when you find yourself thinking of his/her good qualities, try hard to  stop that; quit thinking about what was good in him/her –-- and instead think of all the negative things he/she has done to u, then tell yourself that he/she doesn't deserve u.

Last but not the least, keep an open communication with him/her (i don't mean u should call), but when he/she does, try as much as possible to be indifferent/neutral while communicating..., that way he/she will be trying to know what's makings u tick overnight.., if u are still interested, u know what to do, if not, back-out, either way still maintain the way of communication for awhile, that way u stand the chance of gaining more respect/attention.

I hope this help.

Girl we all are here for a greener pasture; Am a Nigeria married to a French guy too, so using the language that our President want us back home...., come to think of it, how many graduates are unemployed in that same country....? If i may ask, you said you are from Nigeria and you based in France? what are you doing here then? why not honor the call of our president by relocating to Nigeria? you are blaming your fellow blacks' to be abroad, yet you are still in France, or are you now white 'cos you are married to French? Am not in support of those that goes against law of human-trafficking...., so dear let us call a spade a spade. We can iron it out in camera. I meant no harm though.

Is absolutely inhuman! but i wonder why this wasn't passed at media here in France? of-course the knew it wouldn't be a good reputation, despite whatever the may have tagged it: Imagine drawing the mother along on the floor with the child tied behind, is that part of humanity?   

My sister i tire o, c wahala; nothing dey dear

dolphinkate i meant i wish u same (happy 2010), don't misunderstand me o hehe