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41  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: WHY TYING THE KNOT, WITH THE FELLOW YOU DON'T LOVE? on: 18-12-2010 01:51 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 18-12-2010 01:38 PM
Quote from: nellygold on 18-12-2010 01:31 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 18-12-2010 01:25 PM
Fool guy!

I came to realized lot peoples are into such, as a person can way of s** make u be infidel? i mean is it enough reason to cheat?

Probably he respects his wife too much to ask her to do who knows what dirty stuffs!
Libidinous and perverse guy!
 


If i were the wife, i will be glad to know what was that about s**, that get him attracted to other women...., i ill try to reach a compromise to save my marriage, but when he's not opening-up, all in the name of respect, i don't buy the idea,
42  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: WHY TYING THE KNOT, WITH THE FELLOW YOU DON'T LOVE? on: 18-12-2010 01:44 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 18-12-2010 01:33 PM
If only a man will learn to open up to his wife!!

I guess the only thing he need from lady A is sex, maybe his wife is doing something wrong there...

Why can't he just talk to her about it, give her the chance to save her marriage!


Yaa opening-up is sure the key, but i think he may be shying away from that
43  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: WHY TYING THE KNOT, WITH THE FELLOW YOU DON'T LOVE? on: 18-12-2010 01:31 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 18-12-2010 01:25 PM
Fool guy!

I came to realized lot peoples are into such, as a person can way of s** make u be infidel? i mean is it enough reason to cheat?
44  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: WHY TYING THE KNOT, WITH THE FELLOW YOU DON'T LOVE? on: 18-12-2010 01:17 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 18-12-2010 01:06 PM
Quote from: nellygold on 18-12-2010 12:57 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 18-12-2010 12:30 PM
Quote from: nellygold on 18-12-2010 12:24 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 18-12-2010 12:22 PM
Safety?


How? explain


Probably his marriage feels safe with his wife,but the guy has big issues indeed!





Safe according to him..., his main reason was that, S** with the lady A is something else..., but frankly speaking that's weird


I imagined that s** was the reason for keeping the other woman too!
That's why I said that he has big issues!



Yaa it's all about S**

@ Sobeit u bera comment now or  Cheesy
45  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: WHY TYING THE KNOT, WITH THE FELLOW YOU DON'T LOVE? on: 18-12-2010 01:14 PM
Quote from: onyin on 18-12-2010 01:01 PM
Lady A is very good in bed.And he loves his wife very well.A man can cheat and still go back home to love his wife,becos for most of them cheating is nothing.Its more like having fun.but such men,only God can heal them.

ure! my dear;  she might be good in bed, but that's very bad of him, because whatever his getting from Lady A, the wife can equally give it to him, if he can be very open to her; cheating is cheating No one can be justify for doing that, be it a man or woman
46  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: WHY TYING THE KNOT, WITH THE FELLOW YOU DON'T LOVE? on: 18-12-2010 01:03 PM
@ Blessedme and HearMyCry, i know, but do you guys, think that his reasons are justify?
47  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: WHY TYING THE KNOT, WITH THE FELLOW YOU DON'T LOVE? on: 18-12-2010 12:57 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 18-12-2010 12:30 PM
Quote from: nellygold on 18-12-2010 12:24 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 18-12-2010 12:22 PM
Safety?


How? explain


Probably his marriage feels safe with his wife,but the guy has big issues indeed!





Safe according to him..., his main reason was that, S** with the lady A is something else..., but frankly speaking that's weird
48  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: WHY TYING THE KNOT, WITH THE FELLOW YOU DON'T LOVE? on: 18-12-2010 12:50 PM
Quote from: SNYPER on 18-12-2010 12:26 PM
inability to make the right choice.

i think d guy needs deliverance, he is in bondage.

Believe me, if you ask me  or if am a man, i wouldn't say is a wrong choice, they wife is doing all she can, to the extend of changing Religion, you and I know how hard that can be b/w Christian and Muslim, but she did it; other men are envying his wife, yet.....
49  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: WHY TYING THE KNOT, WITH THE FELLOW YOU DON'T LOVE? on: 18-12-2010 12:24 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 18-12-2010 12:22 PM
Safety?

How? explain
50  Forum / Relationships & Romance / WHY TYING THE KNOT, WITH THE FELLOW YOU DON'T LOVE? on: 18-12-2010 12:16 PM
There's this friend of my, who got married 5years ago; during our chat, he told me, that he's still seeing the lady (Lady A) he went out with before getting married; I was astonish hearing that!, 'cos i know the wife, from my own perspective she (the wife/Lady B) got all it takes, both in terms of beauty and wife material stuffs:

I told him if you so love this other lady, you she have got married to her, instead of your present wife..., you courted both of them and decide to settle for Lady B (the wife); He responds was, over my dead body will i settle for Lady A, but at the same time, i find it difficult letting her go, 'cos i have tried severally to stop seeing her, at the end of the day, i still find myself in her arms; I quit agreed with you that my wife got all it takes, but all the same something is missing somewhere....., you wouldn't get it, he added:

The essence of courtship is to figure out things... before tying knot..., we all know that no one is perfect (i:e no ideal woman/man); but at the same time, i think, E:g if out of 10 characteristic we need..., we find say 7 in one particular person; why will one get stuck with a fellow that has 4, when he already tie the knot, with the one that has 7?. It suck!; Moreover, i found out, that he's not ready to quit Lady A, 'Cos when i asked him, how will you handle things, if your wife finds out? he said, how will she..? you are not gonna tell her, will you?

So my question is, WHY TYING THE KNOT, WITH THE FELLOW YOU DON'T REALLY LOVE/WANT?
51  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Can she be the one? on: 16-12-2010 09:22 PM
i meant if it didn't work-out
52  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Can she be the one? on: 16-12-2010 09:20 PM
Quote from: Treasure2 on 16-12-2010 08:35 AM
Sit her down and tell her that you are in a deep relationship and will not want to give her heart break.  And you never wanted initimacy with her, all you wanted was just a true friend and as for marriage, you will not be able bc u have propose to someone.

You are right dear; @ poster after trying what she told you, if that didn't what-out, then find way to make her and your gf to become close friends, that way she might cease from such request
53  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: men think they are smart (Page 4) on: 16-12-2010 08:46 PM
It depends on what's grand..... http://blog.californiapsychics.com/blog/2010/12/the-power-of-womanly-wiles.html/
54  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: WHAT DO THEY REALLY WANT FROM US on: 15-12-2010 02:03 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 15-12-2010 12:54 PM
Quote from: blessedme on 15-12-2010 11:42 AM
WHEN A YOUNG MAN claim to be in a SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP/ENGAGED A LADY, yet He still keeps other girls and takes them to his house on different occassion.

I want to know if he is serious wif d engage bride-to-be or just tieing her down while he is busy wif other girls
pls let hear ya opinion on dis


That's anything but serious relationship!
That kind of guy doesn't even know what "serious relationship/engagement " means!
Total mess,my dear!
And I doubt he'll stop after they get married!


Exactly, exchange Ring at the ALTAR might not change such fellow
55  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: 42 Things ur gf will not tel u on: 14-12-2010 12:22 AM
Quote from: xena15 on 14-12-2010 12:19 AM
Wherd i wan go see dat kind man?
Dem go call am woman wrapper o!
£

HEHEHE  Wink
56  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: 42 Things ur gf will not tel u on: 13-12-2010 11:11 PM
Good work, most of them are damn truth about us "women" hehehe
57  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: ......going for the unavailable........ on: 13-12-2010 01:32 PM
Quote from: chiglamour4u on 13-12-2010 01:10 PM
Quote from: Treasure2 on 13-12-2010 12:45 PM
Quote from: chiglamour4u on 13-12-2010 12:38 PM
@ poster carry this advice wey treasure drop so add am to ur own go give her if she still insist then u leave her na her chioce when she marry na so one girl go dey date her husband mk she see hw it feels tell her say na course she dey receive and d more she dey sleep with the man d course dey increase 


I tire ooo for some babes, Single bobo never finish na e i go come dey carry one wey don dey reach e R I P.  Really sad.

my sister watin dey vex me be say those girls dey spoil our image maybe i go beging tell God say my next world na man i won be

They don't seems 2 care. But what goes  around.....

@ BS Thanks dearie "wink"
58  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: ......going for the unavailable........ on: 13-12-2010 12:54 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 13-12-2010 12:50 PM
Wink Cool

Hope u r having a nice day BS? As 4 me yes, though on launch break, rushing out, see yaa  Wink Wink Smiley Smiley Cheesy Cheesy
59  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: ......going for the unavailable........ on: 13-12-2010 12:47 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 13-12-2010 12:32 PM
Quote from: nellygold on 13-12-2010 12:27 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 13-12-2010 10:35 AM
Quote from: Treasure2 on 13-12-2010 10:34 AM
Advise her not to be carried away with this small .....................  she should question her conscience if she has one.

They said my mind

Yeees!Conscience is the key word! Wink

Yap gurl, u got it right  Cheesy
60  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Love U on: 13-12-2010 12:38 PM
Another wasting of space; don't get me wrong dear; the right place to do that, should be on your Profile Status..., not here
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