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61  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Is this love or hatred? on: 19-09-2011 03:11 PM
Is it love or what would u call it that led to the condition of this girl? what do u think should happen to the 'devil' who perpetrated this evil, especially if the girl is either ur sister or gurl friend?
Please read the pathetic story to understand and comment:

“What did I do to deserve this? When has turning down a request for a relationship become a sin?”

These are the questions that have been pouring forth from the devastated mouth of Francisca Ogbu, a first-year undergraduate of the Federal University of Technology, Yola, Adamawa State (FUTY), who was recently bathed with acid, allegedly by a man seeking an affair with her.

Looking devastated on her hospital bed at the female surgical ward of the University of Maiduguri Teaching Hospital (UMTH), Francisca painted the picture of a gloomy future and a jinxed academic career.
“My education has already suffered and I don’t think there is hope again,” she declared as tears rolled down her disfigured cheek. The glowing face of yesterday has been battered, no thanks to a certain Bright, the lover boy, who allegedly bathed her with acid.

Francisca’s ordeal started last year after gaining admission into the department of economics at FUTY. “One boy, called Bright, has been requesting to go out with me. He is not in my department. He was in 500 Level. He even bought gifts sometime ago but I rejected them. I told him I was not interested because I was very new in the school and I saw his request as a distraction,” she told our reporter.

She said she thought the matter was over but unknown to her, the lover boy had some evil intentions.
“I was reading in a classroom one day with a candle, because there was no light on campus that night. There were other people in the classroom. At about 11.30 pm, somebody called me to come out of the class but I refused, insisting that it was late and that I was reading. Then, I heard somebody calling my name again from outside. It was a familiar voice and I was encouraged to stand up from my seat and look out from the door. That was all.”

The decision to look out for the caller through the classroom door was Francisca’s greatest undoing. All she could remember moments later was the unbearable pain from the acid poured on her. With a badly damaged right ear which has since been cut off, the destiny of the young lady, the second in the family of seven, changed. She was rushed to the hospital in Yola and subsequently referred to the UMTH.
Unable to hold back her tears, Francisca lamented that her education has suffered. “I want to go back to school,” she kept saying. She said the incident, which happened barely a month after her matriculation, had shattered her dreams.

To return to school, she would need to undergo more treatment and facial surgery in India and it would cost over N5 million, excluding travel expenses and feeding but then, her parents, who have been supportive since the incident occurred, cannot afford the amount. In fact, her father, Mr. Ogbu, a civil servant, was said to have expended his entire savings on the treatment, which was initially borne by FUTY.

“The man was here last week and I really pity him. He is totally broke. He has expended his savings on the treatment of his daughter. He said he had sworn that the only legacy he could give his children was education but the man is now sad because he seems to believe his vision has been truncated,” an official at the UMTH told Daily Sun.

It was gathered that Bright, the suspected lover boy, has been expelled by FUTY. He was also said to have been picked up by the police and released later. Francisca is appealing to the government, corporate organisations and well-meaning Nigerians to assist her financially so that she could go for surgery in India as well as realise her dream of going back to school.

 Go to this link for the picture of the unfortunate girl:
http://www.sunnewsonline.com/images/Francisca-acid.jpg

   



 















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62  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Why Do Married Men and Women Refuse To Indicate Their Status On Facebook? on: 16-09-2011 07:11 PM
Let me rush to facebook and confirm ur allegation. I'll be back with my comment.
63  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: How to Be the Girl Every Guy Wants on: 16-09-2011 06:01 PM
I think nagging is interesting in relationship. It goes to show the feminine aspect of the woman/girl. It also shows that she desires you. However, excess of everything is B-A-D.
64  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Why Are Men Attracted To Bosom ? (Page 2) on: 16-09-2011 05:52 PM
It is the first thing we saw when we opened our eyes and we want to make it the last thing we see before we close our eyes
65  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Love, infatuation and lust on: 16-09-2011 04:17 PM
I disagree with u jukkiebukwes. It is not possible for infatuation to precede love. The proper order should be lust-love-infatuation.
66  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: "Every Woman Is An Asset" - How Trus Is This? on: 16-09-2011 04:00 PM
A woman can be an asset to her man when he takes her as a very important 'thing', which to me is good.But some men take their women as property they have the liberty to use anyhow. That to me is totally wrong. Women are supposed to be helpers and not properties hence must be loved and respected.
67  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Breaking News:A guy jumped frm 5th storey building, all cuz of HEARTBROKEN. (Page 2) on: 16-09-2011 03:48 PM
He's not fit to live. As his heart is broken, dey should have allowed him to equally break is body and life.
68  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Love, infatuation and lust on: 16-09-2011 03:24 PM
A situation where love is defined as a profoundly tender or passionate affection for another person, and lust is a passionate or overmastering desire or craving while infatuation is foolish or all-absorbing passion, how do we know when our love becomes lust or infatuation. I ask this because, to me, they are all the same but with difference with regards to degree and motive.
69  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Teenage housemaid stabs 19-year-old to death (Page 2) on: 16-09-2011 11:50 AM
when the cause of the fight is not there, the substance of the story is lost. Poster do complete the story for proper comments
70  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Love, infatuation and lust on: 15-09-2011 06:32 PM
The 4 letter word called "love" has been so used and abused by different people to express different feelings, to the extent that one finds it difficult when one crosses the love boundary into that of infatuation and lust. Pls my dear Naijapals help me draw clear line between love and its sisters, infatuation and lust. Thanks.
71  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Is Confrontation a healthy part of a relationship? on: 15-09-2011 06:20 PM
any relationship without confrontation is as fragile as the egg hence can easily break.
72  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Poverty & Prostitution In Edo State, Baby Market In Abia State [Video] on: 18-08-2011 12:18 PM
can't see the video naa.
73  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: DOES PHONE SEX OR CHATTN SEX HELP A RELATIONSHIP ?? on: 28-08-2010 11:43 AM
Sex is body contact, but phone sex or whatever is a mirage.
74  Forum / Family / Re: HE WAS TOLD; HE IS NOT HIS SON AFTER 8 YEARS on: 27-08-2010 06:56 PM
Treasure, how na?
75  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: genevieve-nnaji-and-ay-get-promiscuous-she-shows-ay-some-boobs on: 27-08-2010 06:50 PM
Not interested abeg.
76  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: How to get Hooked up with the Right Woman? on: 27-08-2010 06:32 PM
Sorry. i dey come
77  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: HWO DO I TELL HER OFF ?? on: 27-08-2010 06:28 PM
Well, u have heard many. Go for the one that can remain fresh even after ten years.
78  Forum / Family / Re: HE WAS TOLD; HE IS NOT HIS SON AFTER 8 YEARS on: 27-08-2010 06:15 PM
As it stands, the wife has already created a very big doubt with regard to the real paternity of the two daughters. He should also conduct DNA test on all of them have peace of mind. For the boy, he should be given to his real father while the wife should be divorced immediately.
79  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: SEX on: 27-08-2010 10:28 AM
i was here, but i had to pass. thanx
80  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: HELP! HELP !! HELP!!! on: 24-08-2010 07:57 PM
Me i go react as she go react if she see me with another babe in the pool.
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