Ade! Ade!! Ade!!!, i think you have a problem and you are the problem of your family from reading your side of the story.
No responsible man at your status will come out in public to air out problem in their family in public. Families face issues more than what you have stated.
All you have mentioned above means nothing to me reading this and only puts you in the deep.
Sorry to say this about your late brother, but since you decided to talk about him. I absolutely think you are wrong to talk about him no matter what he has done to you.
Don't try to justify your actions, cos people dont really care and know family is family if anything happen to you today they will be the ones to come first, friends thought of you will be just for a while but your family members thought of you will remind forever in their hearts.
Ade, dont allow media and friends to push you to say more i dont want to read any more of this because i think its bit stupid and all your family members cannot be against you.IF?
And if you still want to justify yourself, how could you travel "2 hrs" to togo to see your sick brother and unable to see your brother "your mother ask you to give money and you gave and you feel you have done enough? So 2 hrs is a lot of time for you to waste on your sick who is dying brother?
We all know successful member of a family more is always demanded of them. Ade you cannot speak ill of your mum and me reading without saying anything, you should have respect for your mum no matter what.
Sorry Ade but you are wrong..