This is the not the issue of judging anyone, Let the truth be spoken and let people know what God desires and expects of them. Telling people what they want to hear is not just the "TRUTH".
that is not true, for sure! They are only decieving themselves cos they also get to fall in love with playgirls... that is the irony of life! hahahahhaha
one only needs to pray about it, but i also think the sparks will be there... like a real connection you both have and makes you sure if he or she is really the right patner...most importantly, prayer is the master key!