the fact that u have seen this happen means the parents share this view with their children and neigbhours........all the same i think its a wrong attitude, and such parents should be advised to stop.
a test was being carried out on ten madmen who had just undergone treatment, a door was drawn on the wall, and they were asked to enter ... nine out of the ten rushed 4 the 'door' and started struggling for it. feeling discouraged, but happy that at least the treatment worked on one of them,the psychiatrist, turned to the remaining one hopefully and asked him why he did not struggle for the 'door'. the madman laughed heartily and replied that the other madmen were wasting their time as he was with the key to the door.