i have been dating dis guy since secondary school, about 6 years now, three years after secondary school a lot has changed, i have grown, and i expect a lot 2 grow with, i want my relationship 2 grow 2, but my guy 2 me is still a cub, i mean compared 2 my friends guy's, they show maturity in things dat my guy does with immaturity, I've considered trying a new date, someone older, but the thing is is i cant seem to love another, i cant even stand the touch of another except my first love. please i need 2 know how long dis will last, or his there a way i can help myself? please help

have been dating this guy since junior high  school, the relationship has been for me puppy compare to my friends relationships, i mean i want a relationship with an older male, but the thing is, i shy away from advance made to me, i just find it difficult to give another a chance.

i believe it depends on individual,one man's doing cannot be used to describe all men