@ poster don't forget that the white man is superior to the black man, where is your 'research' on that? Don't be biased now, let's hear how the white man is superior to the black man too.  Afterall,  a white woman requires a white man to help in her creation, just as  a black woman requires a black man to help in her creation.  Don't be ashamed to show your 'research' on the superiority of the white man to a black man like yourself.....Damn fool.

Perhaps He did when He created your mother.  You always have the option of being gay, nobody is forcing you to commune with women.

I agree with your people, your reasons for wanting to marry are simply for self-gratification.  You have not mentioned a desire to nurture, care, support and fully embrace the demands of being a mother and wife.  You simply sound like you are looking for an elevation of status and so are seeking out marriage and motherhood to stroke your ego. As per your words : " I want to  be called wife and mother..."  Uh???  Get back to the drawing board sister and come up with a better plan. 

You have to release the guilt and move on, no point crying over spilt milk.   You have just learned a hard lesson in trust, you can't ever trust anybody not even yourself, because the thing you thought you would never do is the very thing you did.  Forgive yourself and move on, we all make mistakes and the world is not going to fall apart because you lost your virginity, there are bigger things going on in the universe. 

There are legitimate reasons for seeking a divorce, and nobody should be vilified for choosing to leave a marriage for legitimate reasons.  When you have lived long enough in this world you realize that you can do everything right and still not reap a harvest.  

If your conscience gives you to cover your head, then cover it.  Life is too short to be worrying about what others are, or are not doing.  Are you doing all that is right?  If you died this moment  will it have mattered whether others were covering their heads?  A spiritual  life is not focused on what others are doing, a spiritual life is focused on what YOU are doing.  All these distractions that ppl seek; wonderings, philosophizing, postulating on others and their actions  are simply  time wasting actions that do not add anything of value to the spiritual progress. 

The same tiring, trifling post at an attempt to one up.  I wonder when the heads and thoughts behind these posts will tire?   

  Why the condemnation?  Didn't Jesus tell us not to worry about the future, but concentrate on the present? 

Ppl died during sex, on the toilet, driving, on vacation.  Death doesn't make an appointment before showing up.  Hope her family finds comfort.

I don't believe this one bit.  I am not saying there are no Nigerian prostitutes outside of Nigeria, but 60% in one country alone.  Unless the Nigerians are the ones on the street and all the Italian prostitutes have gone into brothels.   In any case, I hope all those women who are being trafficked can be rescued from such a life.

Interesting they are rejecting the baby, but not the father.  Why was the man not beaten and banished from the community and imprisoned?  Look at the amount of women who are willing both free and those selling, but this man only see fit to go to his child. Father of the child is both father and grandfather.  Lord, give me the strength to endure these things on the planet.

This is some seriously sick shit.  What the hell does poverty have to do with this act? I am sick of ppl blaming every inhumane act on poverty.   This person's life was only worth $50 USD.   I hope all involved will never see the light of day again.  These are only the ones who get caught, how many other thousands of these sick fcks are running around lopping off ppl's head.

If that's all you're mentally able to deal with right now then fine.  Tell them yes, cause men can catch feelings just like women.  It don't matter if you're 30, 40 or 50, I would prefer a woman choose not be married and a mother than do it and be bad at it.  So many reckless women out there who knew they should not have married anybody because they can't stay faithful, or properly nurture a man, and should never have had children because they completely suck at being mothers.  I appreciate this woman being honest and knowing she is not ready for either.

It is there for those who need it.  I have always been pro-choice since a very young age.  However, if I was a mother and my daughter got pregnant I would never encourage her to have an abortion, whatever she chooses to do I would support.  I would prefer my daughter get pregnant and healthy than come home telling me she has Aids.

I always wondered about it myself.  A woman is supposed to remain a  virgin until marriage, but if she gets divorced or the husband dies she can remarry, so what about the virginity for the new husband?  It seems useless to me, unless you are guaranteed to be married to only one man for the rest of your life.  Many women also use it to have a sense of superiority over another who was not a virgin on her wedding night.  At the end of the day it matters not of virginity or no virginity because all honeypot end up in the grave a feast for maggots.

The real question is who is a true prophet these days?  There are more profits out there nowadays, so while I know God has always had His legit ppl on the planet at all times,  they are extremely hard to find in modern times.  But yes, divine prophets have always been on the earth through the ages.

To be honest with you I do not concern myself about the coming of Jesus, heaven or hell, eternal life and all those things.  I don't want to distract myself from the here and now and living a wholesome life.  I just don't care if or when it will happen.  I have enough to deal with now than to worry about future events.

I don't know what you need advice for, you caught him as you said, so you saw with your own two eyes.  You need to contact the authorities and get a lawyer.  Let him take up residence in one of the local jails while you work out your divorce.  Your depression is natural, but you cannot let yourself be swayed to continue being his wife.  Laying down with a man who molested your child would be another abomination.  If you are a person of faith keep praying, you will need support from the Most High.  Speak to your daughter and let her know you  love her and get some counseling for both of you.   My prayers are with you and your child.

So she doesn't like kissing, if kissing is important to you then find someone who enjoys it as much as you do. 

Police the world over are getting more and more evil.   My prayers are with his family.