she used to be faithful, loving when we got started 2007 but she changed to be exactly the opposite of who i used to know. all of a sudden she stopped picking my calls and when she managed to pick up and i asked why she was not picking she will reply MUST I ALWAYS PICK YOUR CALLS? this was on for two months until we decided to call it a quit after messing up with my brother's pal who happens to be a banker February this year. only to find out later that the guy was living a fake life cos he is married with a kid may this year. she is now on my neck since then begging for me to forgive her and accept her back after dishing out on me for several months.......if you were to be me, what will you do??

 in the oldies relationships is something to write home about.....where now are we heading to? some gurls have aborted so many times and will never be able to give birth again and would not want their spouse to know before getting married while some are virgins and would not want to loose it to any guy with the fear that they might not end up husby and wiffy. which is then advisable should we check before marriage to know what we are about to have as wife or wait till after marriage before having it?