abeg, make dem make plans to go back...nothing dey happen.  To live n die in europe, abi?. Any Naija with an iota of commonsense, go try learn some useful handiwork or trade for europe then, use that skill take provide for him family/community.  I nor blame spain sha, make we dey deport their ships wey dey fish illegally for West Africa waters.

This is nothing to be celebrated, IT'S A LOW DOWN DIRTY SHAME.  2 huge egos clashing

Farida who?  She's simply a chip off the old block or sown from the same clothing material that is made up of PDP.

The thing wey dey make Obasanjo and Atiku laugh go soon make dem cry....yeye, demented old men

100K including the dowry and orishi rishi......period!  I need the rest to rent a bigger place, buy a bigger bed/sofa and baby things.

playboy, playa and pleaser

In a relationship where tolerance, patience and unselfishness is missing, all road leads to divorce and, this tend to have a terrible impact on the children involved. A society or couples faced with constant struggles almost on daily basis to earn a living and be happy, a minor slip up by either partner can be over-blown and the line of trust broken.
My suggestion is that couples should learn to work as a team rather than competitor.  When you what as a team, you are contented, live within you means, compliment each other and provide for the "needs" of your family.  Most of this "needs", money cannot buy.  Right now, our morals are out of place in Nigeria and true love/trust/loyalty/values/culture are being slaughtered at the altar of chasing money NOT wealth. In a society with  firmly rooted moral compass, divorce rates are relatively low...We (individually and as a family) need to re-evaluate our morals.

definitely...nothing spoil

maybe they are twins....enjoy it while it last

Have an honest conversation with him and state your priorities then, listen to his.  I disagree with sending him a breakup text if as you wrote "he is my world and i love him".

You need to try different styles or experiment so help you know which style "know your rocks off".  Variety is the spice of life and, sex is something to enjoy among other things but, some women are so selfish with it...even married ones.

As for me, i like variety with my babe and, i will understand/chill out if she's tired even for a quickie.....no wahala.

What is "love and care" for someone? If it doesn't work and you have tried your absolute best to make it work, it's better to let go.  How do you know the "good ones"?  People change and sometimes, the more you look, the less you see especially in Nigeria these days..a dog-eat-dog society.

It doesn't matter, she "only" want to sleep over....policy?  Na wa o!..nothing spoil sha

Haba, regina

wetin dey happen for life, sha?  Abi the man never or too old to marry since him wife die?

most people approach or enter into marriage with the wrong expectation, u can decide b4 hand if u need marriage for companionship, reproduction, convenience or all of the above.  if you meet a man or woman that shares the same ideas or expectations, both can then enter into a union and continually work at solidifying their relationship and make it a lasting union.
However, in an environment where there is endemic poverty, folks are always searching for the loaded guy regardless of his dreams/expectations or severely conflicting morals.  Most lack self-pride, morals and dignity, they turn to church, pastor or a false god as a last resort.  In the innermost part of their hearts, they yearn for a true partner.  So, what is the solution? Before you enter into any relationship/marriage, identify one positive thing that make the union worthwhile (not money, because it might finish) then, work hard at adding the rest ingredients that will make the marriage endure against all odds.

Don't need either, i just want to be Happy and have Peace of mind and, money or love does not bring these.

I support Bendel Insurance of Benin City.....Premier is shit, i am not English....Naija for life

Here is a comment from one reader as to the specific stimulant that cost Nigeria Osayomi gold:

"give back any money and medals you have won and the public should know who you are, its cheating we are all to quick to bag others. The stimulant, which has the chemical name methylhexaneamine, cost Nigerian sprinter Osayomi Oludamola her Commonwealth Games 100m gold medal, which she was awarded after Australian Sally Pearson was disqualified."

Wow!!! I thought it was only Nigerian Athletes that are drug cheats!  See how some countries i.e. Australia try to hide their drug cheats but, are quick to condemn others and flash their pictures all over their newspapers

http://au.sports.yahoo.com/news/article/-/8184489/aussie-athletes-test-positive-stimulant/

I wonder how many of Australian athletes were tested during the commonwealth games, the above report says: "They were tested BEFORE and AFTER the GAMES NOT DURING the GAMES.

@Pepesy

Excellent points/advice, i agree with your follow-up explanation especially points 1,2,3,4.  I see no reason why she shouldn't be out dating (no sleeping with other guys) or hanging out with others even when she's seeing only one guy.  I would rather my girl be busy than being idle and annoying.

I have no qualms with her having a busy schedule, we thus treasure the moments we share together and, get a good bang for our buck(time).

Thanks for sharing