It's a mata of choice,but i will neva date a timid girl let alone marry her.U marry who has d same reasonin wit u,If u are timid,go 4 a timid girl.If u are xposed,go 4 ur kind.
If we broke up by mutual agreement,there is notin wrong in keepin in touch.But if she hurt me or I hurt her,there is no need to keep in touch as dat wil always bring hatred bcoz of our past xpirence.
You are right but what makes couples succeed in marriage entails more dan dat.D basic two are wisdom on d side of both couples & total submission to God,dis will make dem to always 4give each oda.