you are the kind that believe that only the youth are wise....and the old are stupid.....about 12/13yrs ago, my parents turned down my brother's request to marry a particular girl and i was furious and couldnt find a reason for their action, but today if someone gave me same gal or another gal from same place, i will run and never looked back.....when we think we are wiser than our parents, check it, we are either a complete fool or plain jackass and idiots....experience and wisdom come with age not how much books you know.....

i have seen love, and it is stupid and blind.....love is for the idiots or mumu

no harm done

I would asked her who chose her husband for her. Or is she the one getting married to the person? Why on earth would she say she would disown me is beyond my imagination. So i will pay attention to why she wants me to marry the person. By the way, did she choose the person in the first place?