I don’t care what circumstances was we don’t suppose to condone violent. I happen to be in the same predicament years back. What many of you don’t understand is that, it does not matter whether you brought your wife from Nija or both of you come together. I and my families came to Western world together; but circumstances turn me to handicap, guess what that’s when the game change; my wife that has been respecting me now turn against me. Sometime it’s very hard to deal with; but by the power of God, we manage to save our marriage. We are now a happy family that respect each other again, I’m working making good money; but the fact still remain, I don’t care what job you are doing its very hard to beat RN pay check. I don’t know how we did it probably age might have to do with it. Please don’t judge what you know nothing about, if you happen to be in the shoes of those men, you will prefer to commit suicide, than stay in such marriage. But I still believe the husband can walk away; seriously its heavy price to pay when you are living in western world. I think we all need to follow God, if we let the name God started ringing bell in our head every day, killing each other will be the last thing we will be thinking about. May God have mercy on all of them? |