PLS MY DEAR. LOVING HIM IN THE LONG TIME WILL NOT BE ENOUGH. SINCE HE ALREADY FEELS EMBARRASED OF THE AGE GAP, IT IS A CLEAR INDICATION OF THE HEARTACHE U WILL SUFFER IN FUTURE. HE WILL BE EMBARRASED TO TAKE U OUT OR INTRODUCE U TO HIS FRIENDS. RUN NOW. WOMEN ALWAYS AGE B4 MEN. THANKS.

LETS NOT KILL OURSELVES OVER THIS POST.
I AM QUIET SURE BRIDE DID NOT LEAVE WITHOUT GROOM PERMITTING HER TO GO, SO HE CAN HOLD FORT
JUST LIKE I AM SURE BRIDES DO NOT HOLD PHONES ON THEIR WEDDING DAY.
SHEKINA.  THEY POST THESE UNBELIEVABLE THINGS TO ANNOY US.   
SO HUMOUR THEM.

WHICH WAY NIGERIA?
OK, IF SHE GET THE JOB NOW, THE WHOLE PEOPLE INCLUDING HUSBANDS SIDE WILL PRAISE HER FOR AGES AND BRAG ABOUT HOW SMART SHE IS.
BUT IF SHE DID NOT GET IT, THE SAME PEOPLE WILL CONDENM HER ACTIONS.
I JUST PRAY GOD AND THE NNPC SEES WHAT SHE SACRIFICED AND COOLY GIVE HER THE JOB. WEDDING RECEPTION CAN BE POSTPONED.
SHE DESERVES IT.
PERIOD

YOU ARE RIGHT. IT IS NOT GOOD TO JUDGE.
BUT IN THIS CASE I CAN ONLY BUT JUDGE BCOS YOU HAVE ALREADY JUDGED YOURSELF.
AS LONG AS I DATED HIM FIRST, AND HE LEFT ME , EVEN IF HE IS NOW FAMILY, I WILL NEVER GO CLOSE TO HIM.
IT SEEMS TO ME THAT NO ONE KNEW YOU DATED HIM, BCOS IF YOUR SIS KNOWS, SHE WILL NOT BE INVITING YOU OVER LIKE THAT WITHOUT MONITORING.
SO THE WHOLE TRUTH  HAS NOT BEEN TOLD.