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21  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Would you like your family to decide whoever you would love? on: 9-01-2011 10:36 PM
Quote from: HOPEA23 on  9-01-2011 10:16 PM
i will say...i will stand with my decision..moreover,they are not the one that is going to live my life for me...

I like that
22  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Would you like your family to decide whoever you would love? on: 9-01-2011 10:33 PM
Quote from: HOPEA23 on  9-01-2011 10:16 PM
i will say...i will stand with my decision..moreover,they are not the one that is going to live my life for me...

great
23  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Would you like your family to decide whoever you would love? on: 9-01-2011 08:36 PM
with due respect to your families what would you do if you were in this shoe? Run away? stand by your decision and ignored? live without thinking about them?? and how would you confront it??? please share in details so that others will learn.
24  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Would you like your family to decide whoever you would love? on: 9-01-2011 08:17 PM
A friend told me that his family (mother) will find him a wife  when he's ready to get married. Although I disagreed but I respect his choice of how he want to live his life. On the other hand, this issue seem a global debate confronting people. When I was in Africa I thought it never exist anywhere else, but here in Europe is another different thing.My friend's girlfriend is disowned and banish by her family because she did not yield to their decision. Please can someone share his/her view about this.
25  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: plzzzzzzz help (Page 7) on: 8-01-2011 09:48 PM
Quote from: kinkino on  8-01-2011 08:40 PM
no smoke without fire.............check and change ur sim card...............

lol i gbado that word
26  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: sexy words on: 8-01-2011 09:38 PM
Quote from: HOPEA23 on  8-01-2011 03:07 AM
pals,what five words do y'all consider to be the sexiest?


gorgeous,pretty,beautiful and wonderful. 4 me oooo
27  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: How jealous wife slaughtered mate, stepson (Page 7) on: 8-01-2011 08:58 PM
at least this would serve a warning to all those who re still thinking of maybe getting married to two wife's. i have always told those that comes my way never to dream of getting marry to two women. but some still would argue.hp this will serve a bitter lesson. one man to one woman is my believe,religion and that i will do when the time come!!!!
28  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: joint account on: 7-01-2011 12:09 AM
Quote from: bittersweet on 31-07-2010 06:27 PM
Quote from: ORAXGEORGE on 31-07-2010 06:24 PM
Quote from: tantabanana on 31-07-2010 05:46 PM
pals, please there is something bothering me, and i've been having opposing views on it. is it advisable to have a joint account with one's spouse?

u wan go tell am say na me tell u make u no join account with her, ijump am pass.
but to tink of it. y u wan do am, u fit knw her true salary? any ways if u wan do am
tell her half of ur salary. when it is finished any she desprately need money
give her frm the remainin and tell her u borrowed it frm sum1. 
just to save for d rainy days ahead.
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What are u doing, man?Advice him to lie? Undecided
Lies in a marriage can destroy everything!
Lies, in general, can destroy everything!

thanks BTS
29  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: joint account on: 7-01-2011 12:08 AM
Quote from: ORAXGEORGE on 31-07-2010 06:24 PM
Quote from: tantabanana on 31-07-2010 05:46 PM
pals, please there is something bothering me, and i've been having opposing views on it. is it advisable to have a joint account with one's spouse?

u wan go tell am say na me tell u make u no join account with her, ijump am pass.
but to tink of it. y u wan do am, u fit knw her true salary? any ways if u wan do am
tell her half of ur salary. when it is finished any she desprately need money
give her frm the remainin and tell her u borrowed it frm sum1. 
just to save for d rainy days ahead.

this is not an encouraging word for a couple. This person who ask this has already something in mind and doesn't trust his marriage which is not good.if you can't share with your wife in honestly so then why do you afford to live with her  and take her as wife??? pls leanrn and let God in your family and take your wife as your next of truely keen in life and death.
30  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Men WHY? on: 6-01-2011 11:40 PM
that is act of cruelty.
31  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Night Clubs Lose Patronage In Abuja on: 6-01-2011 03:05 PM
Quote from: truth_advocate on  6-01-2011 06:49 AM
I PRAY THAT THIS PROSTITUTE CHANGE AND BECOME REASONABLE WOMEN.PROSTITUTION IS NOT THE LIFE OF A WOMAN WITH DIGNITY.ONLY GOD AND THEMSELVES CAN CHANGE THE SITUATION.THE SOONER,THE BETTER!!!

Thanks for this great piece of advice for the ladies.I wish them a more better life too and its up to them when it come s to the decision to stop thanks so much very meaningful. I admire people like you!!!!!!!
32  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Hubby telling his wife what to wear... on: 6-01-2011 02:51 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on  5-01-2011 10:33 PM
Oh,come on!
It's one thing for him to tell me once in a while that he would like to see me dressed in a certain stuff,
and a different one to tell me always!  Shocked
Neeeeeeeeh!




 appreciable
33  Forum / Sports / Re: kolo Toure Fights Emanuel Adebayor In Manchester Camp on: 6-01-2011 02:47 PM
Quote from: bombisco on  5-01-2011 05:43 PM
this action is un professional and toure lacks pro attitude. we can see that the problem of a black is his fellow black men.where ever; not just on football;most matters.blacks .


you re 100% correct
34  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: can u marry a guy dat u dnt love (Page 8) on: 31-12-2010 09:22 PM
It is easy to say No. But my question is:why after some time (many years) of marriage some people will find a way and another to quit their marriages for another Huh? why do peolple cheat on their partner even when they re married? what if someone you love and marry him/her does not really love you but pretend? love was meant to be respected but today people take advantage of it for their own interest.
35  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: can u marry a guy dat u dnt love on: 31-12-2010 09:11 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 24-12-2010 07:44 AM
@poster:NEVER EVER!




I love this pls keep it up
36  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Best Way To Break Up? on: 28-12-2010 06:42 PM
I cant comment on a topic presented by unseen. by the way who re you?Huh?Huh?Huh???
37  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Ladies: Can You Be A Housewife? on: 28-12-2010 06:37 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 28-12-2010 12:00 PM
It seems like u got me all wrong!
I am not against working moms, i am one myself so i do understand why
i am doin that and the benefit of it! Just that when my husband and i have conversations
he always make it look like Nigerian women are born house wives, while what i read
on the forum proves the opposite.... That is why i made the comment like 'are there more Western
women who can be a housewife'....

I do know abt what Nigeria can offer and what is out of the picture, i know single mothers
are living rough and having a difficult time to survive, BUT that doesnt stop my opinion
that being a housewife is something i can do with my heart and soul....

Everybody got different opinions, this is my own... No matter the enviroment i live in
i can do it, and that is just me...


good talk,every body is entitled to his/her opinion
38  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Ladies: Can You Be A Housewife? on: 28-12-2010 06:33 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 24-12-2010 09:39 AM
Being a house wife is not boring! I wouldn't know how u go feel bored?
The whole day u are busy! And why wouldn't u be a real woman?? So all of our ancestors women
were not real? back then there was no such tin as carreer women!

I can be a full time house wife, if my husband can provide enough money to take care of the family!
If the kids are older, u can still set up a busniness if u are 'bored'....


its  a valid argument.well talk. but this is more for women than men topic
39  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: can you marry who is 10yrs older or younger to you? on: 28-12-2010 06:25 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 28-12-2010 10:01 AM
10 years younger is not possible for d moment, am only 22  Cheesy

10 years older, yes yes and yes


I agree with you cos it depends on how old you re to compare and see whether is good or not.
40  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: ... Is it proper to allow ur fiancee to spend d nite at ur place when u guys r nt yet married? ( on: 28-12-2010 06:14 PM
this is not true and i find it difficult to agree it. firstly,if you have nothing in mind,why can't you let your future wife rest at your house? Secondly, as a responsible man that you claim, if your girl friend tries to act funny you should let her know its not fair. In conclusion this guy doesn't sound convincing therefore the this topic is baseless,unfounded and invented. you don't look religious. Are you a religious person????be honest and let devil be shame
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