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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Am Married & Having a Crush On Another |
on: 24-04-2012 03:49 PM
| @ psoter, pls advice d lady in question dat she should 1st of all pray 2 God 2 help her out (If she's a Christian). Secondly, she should talk dis thing over with her hubby & tell him everything; if she doesn't want 2 regret herself! Failure 2 do dis will lead 2 d inevitable...marital & personal disgrace! | | |
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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: WHY WOMEN TALK SO MUCH? |
on: 8-02-2011 06:05 AM
| We talk so we can have an intelligent conversation. Can't have an intelligent conversation with a man. Men do not have anything intelligent to say I strongly disagree with u on this Kebella. Men are infact, much more intelligent than women(statistically speaking). You can only say there are stupid people, whether men or women | | |
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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Can you keep a sex-free relationship? |
on: 22-01-2011 05:47 AM
| Every r/ship should be defined from the on-set. With self-control and good understanding between the both parties, its possible. There are other things you cherish in a r/ship outside sex.
I agree with u Ur post is d most sane of all d others here! It's very possible to abstain from sex in a relationship. It all depends on self-control. Let me address d guys, cos i'm a guy. The reson why it's difficult 4 us is becos we exercise little or no control of our libidos. Females generally have greater conrol over theirs than us, that's why they can be in a relationship and d seexual pressure usually comes 4rm d guy(most times though). It all depends on u. So d question is(4 d guys): can u exercise control over ur libido? Afterall, u're not an animal! Or, r u? Think about it! | | |
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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: ****THE POWER OF LOVE |
on: 22-01-2011 05:22 AM
| When you're in LOVE, you do not know what is right or wrong. One thing will always be in your heart I'm in Love with him or I'm in luv with her. Love makes us blind, but friendship open our eyes. Kebella dear Being in luv doesn't mean u should have ur eyes blinded to right & wrong! There's no such thing as "blind luv". That's simply infatuation! Luv sees the right and wrong and still has a choice to make. Luv is a CHOICE, not some irrestible, unconrollable force. If it were, many of us would b married to mad people, prostitutes,and d like! But we choose to be with someone for personal reasons, based on personal preferences and prejudices. Pls, let's know d truth and stop dis madness, peddled by the media and society generally. LUV IS A CHOICE, period! | | |
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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: HU |
on: 22-01-2011 05:05 AM
| love dont exist but havin fun is the ultimate
Luv doesn't exist outside Christ. It truely exists, but only in Christ. Thinking having fun is the utimate in a relationship is totally flawed thinking! Pls, b careful | | |
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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: At what age should a man or a woman get married? |
on: 22-01-2011 04:47 AM
| doesnt really matter,, as long as u both matured and old enough to know what marriage is all about........
I totally agree with u, but a word of caution here:it shouldn't be too late, like the man going to his 50s or 60s or for the woman, 40s and 50s.Getting married at an "early" age is still good though! | | |
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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: .... What a woman wants to hear |
on: 10-01-2011 06:09 AM
| Tell her she is beautiful (not hot, fine, or sexy)
Hold her hand at any moment . . . even if its just for a second.
Kiss her on the forehead.
Leave her voice messages to wake up to.
Always tell her you love her every second of the day.
When she is upset, hold her tight and tell her how much she means to you.
Recognize the small things . . . they usually mean the most.
Sing to her no matter how horrible your voice is.
Pick her over all the other girls you hang out with.
Write her notes. (she loves them)
Introduce her to family and friends . . . as your girlfriend.
Play with her hair.
Pick her up, tickle her, and play-wrestle with her.
Sit in the park and just talk to her.
Tell her funny jokes, tell her silly jokes, or just tell her jokes.
Throw pebbles at her window in the middle of the night . . . just because you missed her.
Let her fall asleep in your arms.
Carve your names into a tree.
If she's mad at you, kiss her.
Give her piggyback rides.
Bring her flowers
Treat her the same around your friends as you do when your alone.
Look her in the eyes and smile.
Let her take as many pictures of you as she wants.
Slow dance with her, even if there isn't any music playing.
Kiss her in the rain.
If you are in love with her . . . tell her.
Guy, u romantic o! Anyway, keep it up. It's simply great | | |
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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: it can be risky to love girls from poor homes. |
on: 10-01-2011 05:51 AM
| men going for marriage, or young boys looking for a very sweet girl to date. please be very careful in dealing with girls from poor homes, not all is included but from years of obsrevation, it can bee seen that girls from poor homes hardly or even never feel love for any person outside his own family members, they are more hardened and very crafty, inside their heart is just the burning rage to overcome poveryty their hearts are as hard as stone, dealing with them requires carefulness never you fully love them to save yourselves from very damaging heartbreaks, the cause is that years of incessant hardship and struggles to survive has just hardened them. then when they come out to the society they do anything to meetup, and cover up, including smart pretence,loose. empty and very annoying pride, arrogance and finally systematic gold digging. their mission is just to syphon your little income or any goodies you have to their homes .truly loving them can be a very heavy task on your head and very risky, all these things are just the damaging after effects of poverty. be warned. but the good ones are still out there. what do you think?
Well, i'll say u have a very valid point here. I can see some truth here, from experience. It should come as wisdom for starters.Cheers | | |
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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Love doesn't exist |
on: 10-01-2011 05:44 AM
| ehh.............4 ur mind sha...no be for mine
I understand how u feel. It's true that love doesn't exist-outside of Christ. What exists outside of Christ is chemistry,infatuation or whatever u choose to call it. Someone may not agree with me, but come to think of it- two people are madly in luv for some time, and after a while, due to greater knwoledge of each other's strength and weaknesses, flaws, short-comings and all, they feel great dislike for each other. The true luv that exist remains constant, no matter what. It is actually for ever. It can only be experience in Jesus Christ, and nowhere esle! Cheers | | | |