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Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Man Shares Story and Photos of Sister Who Died From Domestic Violence |
on: 15-05-2015 01:49 PM
| I think the common one we always see, are the people that like to humiliate, destroy and degrade others, because of their sad life, they became sadist, they enjoy other people's pain, they will hit their wife's or poison their husband, they sometimes hate their children or they hate young people because their childhood was not as sunny as the young people they see today, then blessed is the sociopath, this ones think they are faultless, everything that goes wrong is other people's faults, they are blameless, this people can kill without any stress. | | |
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Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Man Shares Story and Photos of Sister Who Died From Domestic Violence |
on: 15-05-2015 01:03 PM
| Especially dangerous is borderline personality disorder, this people have dual personalities, one minutes they are like angels, the next minutes they are the opposite, this deadly people, are unpredictable and will not hesitate to harm you, when you are on their wrong side, some are so compulsive, you must do things the their way or you become useless, some will destroy your mind with curses and twisted words, this people can look very normal and ordinary but they have a remarkable ability to destroy their partner and will never care. | | |
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Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Man Shares Story and Photos of Sister Who Died From Domestic Violence |
on: 15-05-2015 12:53 PM
| some men because of lack of self esteem will continuously hit their wife like they are boxing, while some women are so self centered and greedy and proud that they make everything worthless, before marriage you should have understood the personality of your partner, whether, it is suffering and has the potential to be uncorrectable, unsteady, deceitful, cold, naccist, phycopath, greedy or lustful, while some are too good to be true, some women are naturally drawn to bad men and some men are drawn to evil women. This becomes a recipe for disaster. | | |
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Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Man Shares Story and Photos of Sister Who Died From Domestic Violence |
on: 15-05-2015 12:40 PM
| Why would a man hit a woman and why will a woman abuse a man, things should not go beyond certain extent, because the woman and man are individuals that should have certain values that cannot be compromised, this values can be that the man should never hit the woman and the woman should never abuse or disregard her husband, if some basic values are respected then, the children will grow up to be respectful and wise people. | | |
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Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Nigeria Is The Worst Place To Live - Nigeria Migrant Who Gave Birth On Sea Laments |
on: 14-05-2015 10:54 PM
| There is so much suffering in the country, sometimes I feel like weeping for what i see, at the same time I feel helpless to do something, then what come to my mind is, what and how can I do something as an individual to create the best Nigeria as possible, may be with my talents, or may be with some planning or maybe I need to do something, if you know anything you can do that may be useful someday to help not just yourself but as much people as possible, now is the time to that thinking, to do what is required to find a way, never forget the affliction you see people suffering, and to do something because one day anyone can go through the same affliction. | | |
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Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Nigeria Is The Worst Place To Live - Nigeria Migrant Who Gave Birth On Sea Laments |
on: 14-05-2015 10:41 PM
| She is right, and she is valuable and Nigeria is a good place to live, and maybe one day she would come back when this country has become more organized, I see hope in myself as a Nigerian, the problem we have is the phycological damage that has been inflicted on people without knowing it, I with sadist in most places in the country, the mind has been made to become poor, we don't love ourselves and appreciate our talents, that is why some will block other peoples effort to become successful, and if people are wicked to others, then the people that have seen wickedness also become wicked and the cycle continues, which is un-necessary. I myself will learn to love every Nigerian and will dream and attempt to help as much Nigerians as I can. Let this be every bodies attitude because we are one big family. | | |
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Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Nigeria Is The Worst Place To Live - Nigeria Migrant Who Gave Birth On Sea Laments |
on: 14-05-2015 10:24 PM
| I feel sad that Nigerians have to get to other countries, to get better standard of living, she is right, Nigeria is a difficult place to live, but going through such difficult, even her life was at stake, shows the level of of phycological impart the environment has on people in the country, what are they afraid of, what have they experienced, do they lack confidence in this country. If so it show an amplified level of frustration and desperation, and I think if so, then the society is corroding. People lack dignity, low self worth, lack of mental strength and no support. | | |
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Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: 21-Year-Old Girl Stabs 17-Year-Old Brother To Death In Warri Because He Refused To Wash Plates |
on: 14-05-2015 01:29 AM
| What a pity, for both the murderer and the victim, I wonder why she taught the knife was the solution, or why engaging in fight was necessary, what contributed to this behavior was she had too much ego, she was too fixed, and maybe this was mixed with some frustration, some women like things to happen only in their way, they think it's up to them to enforce everything, it could also be caused by lack of appreciation for your family and jealousy in some ways . But what was critical was the death of the father, being the senior sister she took the role of the father, and everything had to go her way, forgetting that the role went to the brother too, so what it means is that there were too men in the house contesting for power. | | | |