I blame both (Female and male) but ladies most. Her roles in man's life changes all. Men complains before any cheat but ignorate of women grants them access to go on.
Sorry am not a lady but in my view, i sees it as lack of self confident and image. Because i strongly believe that beauty of woman isn't her Bosom but her real self abilities to understand his man and negbr.
. isn't easy to face such life stage, i mean heart break but it's part of life that one has to live with not to run away nor buzz it. Is hard but you got to move on believing to get something better a head of life mission.
Is true that man will die one day at HIS CREATORS APPOINTED TIME. Is true that too much of everything is bad. Do they carry out this test in Africa as well? My piece of advise is let come home to what our fathers lived on..
The honesty aspect of this issue isn't marriage but making a right choice. To me, is not all your parents request should be granted but very careful in chosen your life husband or wife because your raise, falls and happiness lays in it. "Don't say your lucky until your married" take your time and pray seriously over it before stepping in.. Best of luck