u probably did not code ya mail properly , so , she put it in the boring category  and will never repl to it .....u want  a reply ? then warm her up in ur mail

2. play her a song from a web site

3. ask 4 her bank account or personal data   for remmitances  ... almost always a success in getting a reply

4  be funny

5 . never use capital letters in ya mails ....

4.

ah if life were so simple ....

he does speak but most times   ,,,

1 . we  dont like what he says

2.   we  dont pay attention

3.   we dont believe he can speak to us and keep waiting 4 that priest , pastor or imam

4.    we want to hear him in a particular way

5 .    or we dont really believe he exists .

then be ready 4  ...

1 armed robbers ,
2 kidnappers,
3  police exploitation,
4  no water ,
5  no proper refuse disposal ,
6  irrationally high fees 4 ur kids education ,
 7  poor health care and basic hygiene ,
8   low  - if any - value 4 human life ,
9   constant noise pollution ,
10 2 or 3 hours  of power supply in  a day
11 limited access to the internet and  with very low speed
12 lower life expectancy and the fact that u , ur family members and friends can die suddenly .....
13 crass unemployment
14  a deluge of inelligible bachelors and dreaming spinsters
15 lie telling , bribe giving , hero worshipping and living in fear

if u r ready 4 all these , then , nigeria is ok  for all u diasporans ... i was there this year and shook my head in disappointment ....every year we go back 50 years ...