There can be no love without sex. Let us not demonize sex. Most living things engage in some form of segxwal activity. It is only man that turn sex into some sort of religious "beating stick."

Ahh, the pressure of trying to look good. I suppose everyone can relate to that!

This would raise the question; should a man marry a woman who has a child from a previous union? When you find someone you care about, it accept them completely.. children and all.

PointZero, your point well taken. I guess I was also using comments from friends, who are not on Naijapals, to come to that conclusion. I'll definitely give the post sometime to see where the comments go.

Notice the females saying yes, but the males say, heck NO !. I think that is the problem with our relationships today. Women want more of the connection, but are looking to satisfy that passion between his legs.

Sex is a great thing, but let us not confuse it with love. So how do you know if you are in Love, of in "sex?" :-) Ladies tell me if you agree. If the man climaxes and he doesn't want to hold you after that, then he might not be in "love" with you. Nigerian men tend to be selfish in bed. It is about pleasing themself and not their partner!

We so often fall in love with the sex, and not the person. I have often wondered that if you took the sex away, could a relationship be sustained on just love.. Give me your thoughts.

Nigerians appear to ride this "High Horse" of morality.  Amidst all the the corruption, murders, kidnapping, rapes, incest, just to name a few of the ills of Nigeria, people seem so angry about who someone (grown people) chooses to love. There is some extremely wrong with that picture.

Where is the outrage and the hatred for all the other sins!! As the world moves forward, Nigeria and Nigerians seem stuck in "Anglo-Saxon" imposed view of morality. What do I gain by hating someone because of who they choose to love! If a man chooses to love another man, or a woman another woman, that does nothing to change who I can to love !! Let the people be... Just be sure that when you reach heaven's door, you can answer for YOUR OWN SINS!!