ok, let me put it this way. Do you love someone, because you have the ability to tolerate them, or do you tolerate someone, because you already love them? Hope this helps, for the people that are confuse by the question.
I think, if it is real love, be together, and maybe the parents will come around, and if not real love just break it up. I think eloping can be very stressful to u, the relationship, and also to your family, because they will always love you no matter what.
I think ladies should do these often, when they want to break up with their boyfriend but dont want to feel guilty, cos the guy will definetly leave the girl
I think our ancestors married not becos of love but because of labor, prestige and pride, cos the more kids u have people will respect u. the men married to have children that will help in farm, the women marry so that they will have men that will take care of them. but now in our time, people marry for love well not everyone. i think a marriage can survive if they really luv eachother.
Ok, i dont know the deal with naija parents when they get here. It is just my parents or everyone's else that you are not allowed to have a boyfriend, or bring them home, cos u not 30 yet? and u not allowed to leave the house and get ur own house becos u not married yet. how can u marry when they dont allow u to have a boyfriend. sound crazy! ok make ur suggestions, and life event.