U must be a very useless wife material 4 u 2 be experincin such things cos 4 me i can say dat u hv not even respect urself as a married woman,so i wil like 2 advise ur husband not 2 trust u in anythin even in hvin unprotected sex cos u can do un do.
Any man dat allow his wife(helper)to have a house help no matter any reason is a fool.For me,if she need a helper,i will marry another wife(helper)to help her.so i blame her husband cos most woman are devil in human fresh.
Any man dat is washing his wife cloth is a big fool or should i even called such a bein a good defination of an idiot.Any girl who expert her husband to wash her or even his own cloth during marriage in any condition is not a wife material.
Hell fire or whatever dey call u,i believe u're pozest and i know dat is not the man's fult cos the way u're naked dressing is confusing the man and is batter u carry dat ur hot ass in a hot pant to another man elsewhere.