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1  Forum / Sports / Re: Who Will Stop Chelsea From Winning This Premiership? on: 10-11-2008 06:35 AM
Too early my brother to say anything.
2  Forum / Sports / Re: Arsenal (2)- Man U (1) on: 10-11-2008 06:32 AM
Good match report.
For me I cannot write anyone off yet or say this team will be the champion.
The title is still very much open and still early to say.
Remember last season!!!!!!!
3  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: is it right 2 let ur boyfrend know dat u really luv him or its better 2pretend? on: 9-11-2008 07:04 AM
yes, pls show it to him or her.
it helps a lot.
pretending may not be the best, 'i didnt know u do, tot u dont give a damn' can be painful afterwards.
also this topic is for men as well, if you love a lady, let her know and free your mind
getting love in return may not be possible but u have freed your mind so to say
4  Forum / Sports / Re: Wenger needs to move on. on: 7-11-2008 11:02 AM
i agree the team is young and full of spirit but there are cases that experience comes to bear when it gets tough. i think the present squad like the experience.
it has nothing to do with Wenger
5  Forum / Sports / Re: how far can arsenal go? on: 6-11-2008 07:04 AM
hard to say.
Am not too comfortable with the play recently.
Last season was not like this and we end up with nothing but as you said, we wait till Jan.
Good luck. Gunners 4 life
6  Forum / Sports / 2010 World Cup on: 23-10-2008 09:09 AM
Nigeria to contend with Kenya, Tunisia and Mozambique.
Do we have a any chance of making it to the finals this time around?
7  Forum / Sports / Re: Which do you support the most SUPER EAGLES or your favourite club? on: 20-10-2008 09:57 AM
my man, naija match na number one ooooo
8  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: whom would u like to meet a this site on: 20-10-2008 08:45 AM
all my pals and of course, Walexmi, Fyneroy and my Kennee.
cheers
9  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: When a girl is silent on: 3-08-2008 03:04 PM
she is angry
10  Forum / Sports / Re: choose btw thiis 2 midfielders on: 3-08-2008 10:02 AM
Scholes. He is more experienced and gets pass difficult situations and scores goals that seems impossible and most decisive goals.
11  Forum / Sports / New Season on: 3-08-2008 09:55 AM
New season is starting soon.
Guys what are your predictions.
Will there be any change from what we have sen in transfer market?
12  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: A man marrying a woman of older age on: 2-08-2008 06:18 AM
@myra.
talking from experience?
13  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Can you cook and wash for your wife? on: 30-07-2008 12:47 PM
Yes i can. Does that satisfy u?
We should compliment each other and not use one as slave or house girl.
Thanks.
14  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Calling it quit on: 28-07-2008 10:01 AM
when ladies want to call it quit, they have excuses like, he cheats on me, using me, care less about me, always away from me, too harsh, too s-x demanding, dominating, but guys are always enduring some overbearing attitudes of ladies just because they love and don't want to hurt and always find it hard to call it quit even in obvious cases.
What are the causes? What can be done to change this?
Suggestions welcome
15  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: CAN YOU MARRY A PROSTITUTE? on: 22-07-2008 02:50 PM
Why not if she is certified medically Ok and ready with conviction to quite the trade.
Look some ladies in our campuses back home in naija are worse than prostitutes on the streets.
Pray for the best for me anyway.
16  Forum / Relationships & Romance / I got this from a friend. Want to share it with whoever cares!!!!!! on: 22-07-2008 02:41 PM
Falling in Love is a intense experience,That can leave you feeling breathlessly out of control.
ROMANTIC COMEDIES BRING IN MILLION OF DOLLARS Portraying the Zany antics of LOVE TRICKEN,
While daytime dramas intrigue us with the plots and schemes of those are in LOVE.


ROMANTIC LOVE, LUST AND LONG TERM ATTACHMENT
Whether you've falling in love at first sight or not, you've probably felt the rush of sensations of early romantic love: Elation, Heightened energy,Low appetite,Sleeplessness, and the inability to concentrate on anything other than the object of your affection.

MOVE ON AFTER BREAK UP IS HARD TO DO?
Breaking up is hard to do. Learning how to move on after a BREAK UP is especially difficult.
Fortunately, it's not impossible to move on. The two biggest issues for women after a painful break up is that,they often don't want to move on or they don't know how to move on. If  you've just been dumped{or did the dumping yourself},you need a plan to move on and get over him once and for all.
Follow these TEN STEPS to help you move on with your Life.

1.  ACCEPT IT
Before you can move on,you need to accept the reality of your situation. You broke up,it's over.Let reality sink-in even if it takes awhile.Don't allow yourself to harbor secret fantasies of getting back together or how he's going to come crawling back to you.
Respect that this chapter of your life has closed and tell yourself that you're going to have to get over it and move on.

2. DISTANCE YOURSELF
Maybe one day the two of you can be friends again,but now is not the time. Your heart is still freshly wounded and seeing him or contacting him will only make things worse. If some of his belongings are still at your place,have your roommate or friend stay home when he comes to pick them up so that you do not have to have contact with him. If you need to retrieve items from his place,send a friend to do the deed.
Resist the urge to call or email him to "see how he's doing" or to find out if the two of you made a "huge mistake" by breaking up.

3.  STOP TALKING ABOUT HIM.
In the beginning,you'll probably need to get everything off your chest with your closest friends and other people you're close to. Bottling up emotions is not conductive to the moving on process and can be very unhealthy. Your emotions are real and valid; talking about the break up can be good for you,initially.
Once you've "let it out,"  you need to stop talking about the situation. Not only will you start sounding like a broken record to your friends if you constantly talk about him,you will also keep him fresh in your mind and continue to dwell on the relationship-that -was. Make an effort to talk about something else-or, better yet,let your friends talk instead.

4. SKIP THE BLAME GAME
Get the closure you need and figure out how to move on.
Resist the urge to blame Yourself,Him or Anyone else{your meddling parents,his annoying friends etc.}, for what went wrong in the relationship.You both tried, you both made mistakes. In a typical,healthy relationship that suddenly goes sour,it's not anybody's fault. It didn't work out and it probably wasn't meant to be. Accept that fact and move on.

5. LEARN FROM IT
instead of blaming Yourself or Him,learn from the relationship. Part of learning how to move on after a break up is learning from your experience,which includes the breaking up itself as well as your entire relationship with him. Everything in life-good and bad-is a learning experience and breaking up is no exception. Think about your relationship from a completely unbiased,objective point of view.Look at what was great about the relationship what wasn't so great and what led to the demise of the relationship,write it all down and use these notes to help you improve your overall relationship skills.

6.  PICTURE YOURSELF OVER HIM
Picture yourself completely over your ex,if you can. Feel the pride and accomplishment of having gotten over him and move on. Picture yourself looking and feeling fabulous,hanging out laughing with your friends,meeting,talking to and maybe even flirting with other guys{even if that prospect sounds downright scary}and just living life again.

7.  FOCUS ON YOU
Make sure you give yourself plenty of time to focus on you before beginning another relationship. Do something just for you and give yourself some time to connect with your inner self. Spend some quality time with close friends and familymembers.
Take up a hobby,volunteer somewhere,or take a class. Keep yourself busy,but be careful that you don't overload on activities just to distract yourself from your ex.
Do something to boost yourself-esteem,which has likely taken a bit of a beating since the break up. Get a new haircut or hairstyle,get a makeover,go to spa for a mani-pedi,buy a new outfit,etc. Pamper yourself and take a girlfriend along,if you'd like.

8.  GET OUT THERE 
If you haven't gone out since the break up,now is the time. This doesn't mean that you should try to pick up the first cute guy you spot at a bar,but you need to get yourself out in the real world to socialize and possibly meet a new people. Meeting new people is the key to eventually meeting a new guy. You'll also want to re-learn the art of flirting since you've been out of practice for awhile.

9.  TAKE IT NICE AND SLOW
Figuring out how to move on after a break up doesn't involve going overboard with excessive socializing,meeting new people and flirting. You don't want to come across as desperate or overly-needy.Just relax,go slow and enjoy yourself-but don't play hard to get,either. Soon you'll find that the men are approaching you. Also,take your time getting to know new people and don't just jump into a relationship blindly.

10.  DON'T GENERALIZE AND DON'T COMPAR
Not every guy is like the guy you dated and not every relationship will be like the one you just had. In fact,every guy and relationship is different! Don't expect the new guy in your life to be like your ex and don't expect your new relationship to be similar to your previous relationship. Many women do this without even realizing it. Remember,the two of you broke up for a reason so have an open mind.
These tips should make it easier for you to move on with your life and find happiness again. The most important thing to remember after a break up is to stay positive. A positive attitude can provide strenght when you're trying to move on. Tell yourself that you can get over him and that you will get over Him. You'll be back to feeling like yourself again in no time. 
17  Forum / Relationships & Romance / A man marrying a woman of older age on: 22-07-2008 11:31 AM
What is your opinion about a man marrying someone that he is younger to in age?
Is it advisable and what do you think might be the disadvantage(s) in doing this.
Of course what are the advantage(s)?
18  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: why guys always lie on: 17-07-2008 09:52 AM
To me lies is what convinces a lady than the truth.
That is why guys lie to convince ladies that don't like to be told the truth.
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