Good talk from typicalman84. In most cases, the prob is not really identified,rather, blames are put upon each other. This should be well addressed 'cause it's a big prob. Nothing should be difficult to address in a relationship of 3years unless it's a dog and cat game.

Love is all about understanding and appreciating each other. Most pple with such probs are not aware of it. If you really love her, pls go ahead telling her but in a very mature and respective way, then suggest option of solution in overcoming such prob, possibly, finance the option if need be. She's gonna appreciate it so much!

Thank you Pal,but how easy could these be identified in women when love overshadow reasoning of our men. May God save us all.