Dguy, I am not sure if your man is "over-educated" or not. I think there may be some truth whether Igbos are from ancient Israel.  There are certain stories in the bible that still remains today as if the story in the bible are the igbo people story.

Examples:
Akeludeme? - field of blood - this is exactly the same meaning in the igbo language and has not changed.
NRI - the inscription written on the cross when our Lord Jesus Christ was crucified is a place where Igbos crown their kings to date.
Tel Takume - meaning Tata teta na ula kuoume - Little child (girl) wake up from your sleep.
Eloi, eloi, lema sabaka tianni - meaning exactly what it means in the igbo language because the land broke in half including the temple curtain.
Maranata- igbo to remind Him to Come Lord Come.
There are too many examples in the bible.  It is actually very obvious to me that Apostle Paul is an Igbo man indicating that the chances of some Igbos coming from the Benjamin tribe is likely.  Being the youngest of the tribe, writing down their history had never been their strongest suit.  The igbos do not keep old things so finding their history would also be difficult.  They have a habit of burying things too so archaelogist will have a field day in discovering Igbo ancestries.

Genealogy always causes immense friction so it is always better to leave well alone.  I am comfortable in accepting and believing that Igbos are from ancient Israel. 

It is also important to remember Revelation 2:9; and Revelation 3:9. 

It is indicated in the Catholic Bible (Macabees) that the real jews were forbidding from acknowledging that they are jews.  May explain part of why Igbos being called Jews were ceased (this is a guess on my part)

It has been a while, but in the earlier times, the Igbos money had the star of David on their coins.  There was a time that the Nigerian flag bared the star of David also.  If people search for these coins they will find it.

For they have gathered together and said "let Israel not exist".  The Igbos may have lost their identity because there was a concerted effort to deny them their heritage, but I think if Igbos knew the rights and place in history, that all the powers used in resurrecting the death will return back to them.

Some people have complained about some Igbos being ritualistic, greedy, betrayal tendencies.  These are all tendencies done by those that live in the flesh and not in the spirit, and this is not only fleshly sins given to some igbos.  It covers all races and cultures also, but not everybody in that race or culture is like that.

Igbos had an original language before that is in UK museum.  I think it is translated in English to mean the "Living Word".  I heard that there are very few Igbos that speak that language to date.

I have also seen movies made in North America where they show that the ancient ones are igbos.  They are not explicit because after they show you the people that have the knowledge and the beginning of the world, they will end it with an Igbo man speaking the Igbo language saying "O ga di mma"  I think a lot of Europeans and North American whites are aware of this truth, but it is some how important to keep this knowledge a secret.

What I think that if Igbos are aware of their heritage, they will be able to perform all the spiritual gifts and powers that were given to their forefathers in the ancient times.

Remain blessed.

This is too generalistic. Not fair nor true to blanket an entire tribe in that manner.

1.  Judas Iscariot was a Jew.
2.  Generalization of all is not a very good idea.

Trafficking on drugs in any country is not a good idea.  A drug trafficker is slowly killing the citizens that they supply these drugs to.

There is danger in this execution because some people have drugs planted on them without them knowing so killing them is not a good idea because nobody really knows the truth.

Nigerian government should enter into an agreement with Indonesia to receive its citizens back, try them in Nigeria and execute them if they are found to be guilty or sentenced for life in Nigerian prisons.

The disrespect of the laws of other countries if these people are guilty is reprehensible.

I think that many should circulate a petition for Nigerians to sign so that Indonesia will spare the lives of these perpetrators.  Write and call the Nigerian governments to do something.

Nigerian government should also be pressured to help its citizens.  Our government is government for the people and by the people.  If we complain and not take actions together as a group, nothing will change.

The love of money is the root of all evil.

remain blessed.

How to pick up a diamond crown without putting out anything from Jasper.

neither will you, LOL.

I understand that he has agreed to divorce the remaining 82 wives to avoid execution.  I think he should be told that he can turn around and remarry them again but in federal court of Nigeria because the constitution allows him to marry as many wives as he wants.

I agree with you.

The Federal constitution trumps all laws in Nigeria.  Nobody has the right to kill this man.  If the government abdicates their responsibility, the public has the right to dethrone the government for not standing up for the constitution of the federal republic of Nigeria.

If the Federal Republic of Nigeria constitution allows a man to marry as many wives as he wants, then why are they killing him?

Which law trumps the other?  Sharia law or constitutional law?

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At your convenience please listen to some of her songs at:
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Thanks and remain blessed.
I am a dedicated fan.

good advise

Defnitely not Quinn-Maeback, but one of her fans.
Have you had time to listen to some of her songs?
http://www.myspace.com/quinnmaeback

remain blessed.

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Hell hath no wrath than a woman scorned. 
If he does not love her and does not want to settle down with her, he should nicely say no and explain that to her truthfully.

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He should only go with her if he is interested in marrying her.  She has already laid her cards on the table with regards to what she desires in this relationship.  He should not get involved if he is not willing to offer her what she wants.

HIV/AIDS test is a very good idea.
The test should be free to all citizens of Nigeria.
It should be confidential.
Condoms should be handed out freely to ALL.
Free Sex education and prevention should be taught from secondary school to university students.
This is not a time to protest, but a time to keep Nigerians safe.
We want to be proud and say that we have the knowledge on how to keep AIDS/HIV out of Nigeria and we bind together as citizens to stamp HIV/AIDS disease out of Nigeria.
One Nigerian infected is one too many.
It is through testing and prevention education that we can achieve that status.

HIV/AIDS test is a very good idea.
The test should be free to all citizens of Nigeria.
It should be confidential.
Condoms should be handed out freely.
Free Sex education and prevention should be thought from secondary school to university students.
This is not a time to prevent, but a time to keep Nigerians safe.
We want to be proud and say that we have the knowledge on how to keep AIDS/HIV out of Nigeria and we bind together as citizens to stamp that disease out of Nigeria.
One Nigerian infected is one too many.
It is through testing and prevention education that we can achieve that.

Your story is very confusing.  She tells you everything about her, but yet you keep wondering what kind of person she is. 

You have worked her for many years and you still do not know her.  You claim that she has asked you to have an affair with her and she has also asked for a secret marriage.

You state that she is four years older than you.  It should not make any difference where age is concerned.  She is not that much older.  She has not reached the cougar stage.

You state that she came to your house one late evening, but nothing happened between you and her.

Possibilities:
She is lonely. 
She is in love with you.
She may be harassing you segxwally and because she is a person in authority, you may be scared of losing your job.  If this is the case truthfully, then report her to persons higher than her.

If you like her, have a good conversation with her and find out what type of relationship that you wish to have with her, and then both of you will come to a mutual agreement.

Your boss deserves to have somebody in her life.  It is time that you become honest and let her know if you are genuinely interested.

There are lots of men that wish to be in your shoes.

Remain blessed.