THANKS TO YOU ALL THAT MADE A COMMENT ON THIS POST,THANKS TO THE ONCE THAT KNOWS WHAT AM PASSING THRU RIGHT NOW,AND GAVE ME GOOD REPLIES,AND ALSO THANKS TO THE ONCE THAT INSULTED ME,CALLED ME ALL SORT OF NAMES{MOSTLY THE LADIES}I PRAY YOU NEVER FIND YOURSELF IN THIS MESS....WHAT AM I EXPECTED TO DO?SHOUT AND DESTROY A MARRIAGE THAT WAS NOT UP TO 2YRS THEN? AND AT THE END OF THE DAY I WILL BE TAG AS THE DEVIL WHICH I KNOW SOME OF YOU WILL CALL ME THAT DESTROY THEIR MARRIAGE? I KNOW I GOT MYSELF INTO THIS,AND I KNOW AM THE ONLY ONE THAT CAN ALSO GET MYSELF OUT OF IT.BUT TELL ME,IN  A SITUATION WHERE BY "THE MORE YOU STAY OFF THIS GUY,THE MORE THE FAMILY{MY SISTER AND KIDS WANT ME AROUND,WHAT DO I TELL THEM WHEN AM INVITED TO COME VISIT THEM?{THAT YOUR HUSBAND,KIDS...YOUR DAD IS AFTER ME?AND THAT WAS WHY HAVE REFUSE COMING TO VISIT?PLS YOU GUYS SHOULD THINK BE4 JUDGING PEOPLE,I NEVER SAID WHAT AM DOING IS WRITE,I NEVER SAID I WANT TO TAKE REVENGE OVER WHAT MY SISTER DID TO ME,COS SHE WAS VERY WELL AWARE THAT I WAS DATING THIS GUY BE4 I FELL SICK,IT WAS WHEN I WAS IN THE HOSPITAL THAT THEY STARTED DATING,AND AFTER A YEAR OF THEIR AFFAIR,THEY BOTH CALLED ME AND APOLOGIES TO ME,WHICH I FORGAVE THEM AND STAY OFF THEIR FAMILY TILL AFTER THEY GAVE BIRTH TO THEIR FIRST KID AND I WAS INVITED BY MY SISTER TO STAY WITH HER FOR A WHILE, I WAS STAYING AT THEIR BQ NOT THE MAIN BUILDING,MIND YOU,IF I WAS ENJOYING WHAT AM DOING I WILL NEVER POST IT HERE TO SEEK FOR PEOPLE'S ADVICE,SO PLS THINK BE4 YOU JUDGE...PUT YOURSELF IN MY SHOES BE4 YOU CONDEMN ME..........COS THERE ARE A MILLION AND ONE PEOPLE ON THIS SITE THAT DOES THINGS THAT ARE WORST THAN THIS.

All what i told you are gospel truth,infact he called me today begging me to come meet him in one guest house on sunday.....am so so confused,he gaves me whatever i desire,infact he does it immediately i say it out.pls i never said am enjoying this shit,but i need reply from you guys to help me out in this.........Vive why are you saying all this?just pray you never find yourself in this position

I know that all the people that will read this post will surely judge me,but i know am not the one to be blame for it.....pls i need your reply to help me know what to do to get out of it.  I was dating him first,after the first three months of our relationship i fell sick that i even spent close to two months in the hospital,he was a very caring, loving and romantic man to me,he stood by me thru out that period,he gave me a reason to live again.....but something happened along the line,i noticed that be4 i got discharged from the hospital he started dating my senor sister,and when i came back home,he invited me to come to his house which i did,and to my greatest surprise,he huge my sister and shaked me,but to cut the long story short he got married to my sister and they are bless with 3 lovely kids,but i noticed that after 2years of their marriage he started asking me out again,and one day i went to visit them and he came into my room at the middle of the nite and forced him self on me,i tried shouting,but he has already beaten me blue black that i was not able to move any part of my body again,so he was able to have sex with me that day.....and since then we have been doing it,but for past 8months now have refused to allow him touch me just because i feel am doing the wrong thing,but he is always on my neck,calling my phone,begging me to come back to his life. Am so so confuse now,dont really know what to do. SHOULD I CALL MY SISTER AND TELL HER EVERYTHING,OR SHOULD I JUST IGNORE HIM AND KEEP IT AS A SECRET THAT WE WILL BOTH TAKE TO OUR GRAVE?PLS SEND IN YOUR REPLY FAST.