If  14 guys are after you to date you, knowing fully well that you are married, then something is definitly wrong with you!
   If you are not giving them the green light, in form of the smiles and you know what, then they should not be flocking after you.
    
     If you discover that your husband is laughing with every lady that comes his way,and have like 20 girls that want to date him, what will you do ?    
          
       Honor your husband with your body ! Its for him alone.    
        
   This is my candid advice,be yourself and always remember that you are a married woman, unless you are 'enjoying' the company of those men.
       Be wise.

       But at least he had given me a clue.

       The answer had to do with “body language”… and I was determined to figure it out.

       Now that I had the idea in my head that men could use body language to attract women, I read through every piece of information I could find on the topic… (which for the most part was a complete waste of time).

       I discovered that there was a TON of information available on how to read a woman’s body language (most of it lame)… but almost NOTHING on how to use YOUR OWN body language to make a woman notice you and feel attraction for YOU.abi o, help me tell ram

       In the end, I wound up having to go to the source. I ultimately had to get the information DIRECTLY by watching guys who were good with women…

       I started to pay careful attention to the body language of guys that I knew women went crazy for… I started modeling famous actors and models… and some guys I knew who always had more women than they could handle.

       And as I expected… I began to notice some VERY interesting differences in the way these men carried themselves… things that “regular guys” NEVER seemed to do… even accidentally.