I feel ashamed and embarrassed. I know some people would want to nail me after reading just the headline but I feel this is getting out of hand. I clocked 42 last July and to be candid I’m not into any serious relationship. I’m from South-South Nigeria, the first daughter out of 7 children. I hope you won't feel offended as I would not further disclose my identity for obvious reason. Just last year, our last born who works with a popular telecommunication company got married to her longtime boyfriend, leaving only me hugging ‘tubes and tyres.’ I’ve gone for prayers in several churches; they promised me that my husband would appear in no distant time. In fact, the last prayer house I went in a popular church, the man of God told me that ‘if he be a man of God, before the year runs out, my dream man would appear.’
Another one told me I was the architect of my predicament, saying that I’ve missed the opportunity. When I was in my mid 20s, I had many ‘toasters’ but they were never my dream men. I used to think my kind of guy was the tall, dark and handsome one. Preferably banker, but now they are not forthcoming[/i]. I was in a relationship with an ex footballer but I dumped him when I could no longer cope with his kind of person.. Now, I’m even ashamed of living in the same house with my parents at my age...
Please advise...
This is the problem with many nigerian babes! I know of about three ladies going thru this type of challenge. Ur problem is that u didn't take advantage of selling 'ur market' when it was 'fresh' and now u want to sell when its almost stale. The truth is that women can be compared with perishable goods like meat, tomatoes, vegetables, etc. The seller sells @ reasonable prices and to well-to-do ppl if they r fresh in the morning; but by evening time, the prices have crashed and only poor ppl want to buy.
Why do girls messed up potentially good relationships by proving unnecessary difficult? I have encountered stuff like that; where babes proved difficult and I let go. They showed up at a time I had moved on and got them laid and moved on again. Please, don't blame me; ladies should be able to know a relationship that would work out and they should learn to take advantage of opprtunities like that when they show up and stop being difficult.
However, my advise for u now is that u pray harder and believe in God, you may be taken by a polygamist with this ur age. just pray there is nothing impossible. cheers
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U mean ppl should be killing bcs sm1 was caught on camera stealing