Please who is she?

I just googled her name and nothing came up on the search engine.

Please someone should respond....

Have you asked yourself- where he father of the child is? Why blame the innocent little girl who was only trying to be a teenager?

As far as I am concern all of you are senseless and talking rubbish.

I am 30yrs old now, got pregnant for a guy when I was 24yrs old- he abandoned me and denied the pregnancy, even when i got judgment from court asking him to show up for a DNA test, he didnt show up.

Court order did not bring him out as he still walked proudly in the street of lagos.if not for the help of my parents who had to send me abroad to start up my life afresh I am sure I will be in sar shoes as this innocent girl.

I am currently studying for y PhD in the uk.

Please people when you hear stories put yourself in the shoes of that person before running your mouth.

It was tough for me as a lawyer how much more a little innocent girl. Common!!!! Give me a break.

The man who got her pregnant should be handed life Inprisonment.

My sister.... Let us not blame JTF ooo ....if I were to be a judge I will start by jailing the person who filming the beating and killing and did not have time to gather other villagers to overpower them.

He had the time to stand there and cover the bloody event from start to finish..definetly there were more that 1 ( person) who coved the event.

Nigeria is made up of you and I it is in our place to see how we can help in any situation no always blaming the securities as they are mere mortals like us.

@ poster...I have been there girlfriend and I know the feeling. However some mistakes in life is inevitable.

I myself have lost count on the number of mistakes that I have made.

From my view I suggest these Points to consider:
1. Is he really worth it ?
2. Do I just want to have fun with no strings attached?
3. Who gets hurt?
4.what do I really want???
5.what is marriage
6.what is love??? ( it patient,kind,meek,it knows no harm,it endures)
7.do I truly love my husband???
8.How do I get out of this mess???

There are two final conclusions:

Secretly phyuk him PROTECTED and you will forget him because he may not be as AMAZING in bed and forever live with the guilt.


You stick to the vow you made on that special day. Think of your first date,kisses and all the good times you both shared.
Occupy yourself by planning for kids if you don't have any yet. Book for family holidays,and evaluate on your marriage. Communication is the key babes.
There are soooooo many things to do to take your mind away if you truly want to.

We all know the solution to our problems/issues in life if we truly listen to our inner most thoughts.
Neither will my comment or anyone else's help.
Look inside of you,trust me the answer is right there. Go with that, because it will make you happy.


Now to all the critics on here,I will only say one thing" WHEN IT RAINS,IT FALLS ON EVERYONE'S ROOF"
You had better pray,because the life pass as you comment on am.
It could be you. Nail only takes time.
So Pls shut the hell up if you are not married.
Oh well except the wise single girls.


All the best darl.

@poster...pls don't get it twisted.

Not all Nigerians abroad suffer. Maybe the ones that you may have come across don't earn much.

There are Nigerians here who have GOOOOOD JOBS and are very wellllllll paid.

Please it's important you take note.

Thanks.

Don jazzy had better remain  the matured person that he is and not respond to this FOOL!!!!!!

No be kanye west when we know? Let's see. Hissessss

Congrats darlyn.

If I were you I will accept the offer. Even if you date a man for 10yrs before tells you to marry him, doesnt mean that you know all about him.

Your marriage being blissful depends on both of you and what you want.

If you make up your minds to be with each other till death do you part so shall it be.

Again splash reality on your face and know that neither of you are perfect. Trust me you will both do well.

Your happiness is in your hands.

You go girl!!!!!

My dear, I am also facing the same. This is due to the fact that some of our brothers and sisters here do not behave properly. It's difficult but just be good in whatever you do whether you are working or schooling and your hard work will speak for you. 80 percent of them do not like us.

  reply to @ ecobee,  for this unwise comment MY ALL YOUR EX, DO THE SAME TO YOU, YOUR FAMILY AND YOUR UNBORN GENERATION. Oh how i wish you made this stupid comment here in the UK you will serve your useful years in jail. i blame the Nigerian authority who do not know their left from right. idiot.

At this point i am indeed grateful with this development from NAIJPALS and their TEAM concerning this issue and may GOD BLESS YOU ALL who work extra hard. lots of loveeeeeeeeeee.

@fafito. my brother i tire oh.

i live in the UK and it is so so bad what our country is turning into.

Reading naija pals breaks my heart. it either there is a bomb, or rape and now this one. He wouldn't walk free here in the UK.

From this piece i just saw it could be concluded that she (Victim) actually knew one of the guys, probably she didn't tread softly and the said UCHENA ( the name she always mentioned while they were molesting her) decided to, trick her to a flat,and he invited his friends over. Out of fear, she couldnt scream as she may have attracted more of the animals to more fun.

Honestly this is SAD. Also for the fact that these IBO ABIA ANIMALS will walk away free in the streets of Abia State. My IBO ABIA STATE EX GUY was exactly this boring, it obviously runs in the state.

BIBLE!!! I will drive BULLETS through their brains if she were my sister,friend or close relative.  Even if she was rude, greedy etc, how the hell do they have the right to take advantage of her.

They ended up showing how boring and inexperienced IBO men are in bed, goosh. may it NEVER BE WELL WITH THEM, THEIR SISTERS,MOTHERS AND FEMALE KIDS. I decree that it the will never find PEACE until they do things right. they have placed on the a generational CURSE.

Goosh i so hate NIGERIA,such a shame that they can never be brought to book, and even if they do, some of them may be above the law, as its a regular thing in Nigeria.

Heard the news and didn't know that it's my own very neighbour and childhood friend.

May God give your parents the strength to pull through.

Igho rest in peace. x

oh well, maybe na our eye, dey lie to us. because the girl truly looks like her.

But she has no reason to lie, and i do not think that she could stoop so low to deny her daughter, so like she said. DEAL!!!!!!!!!!

Start charity on pre-marital'' is the silliest thing i have heard in recent times.

You should start charity on men or girls who did not marry their first love. or girls who arbort the ones they had and no one knew.

When we make comment, we should bear in mind that ''when it rains, it touches everyones' roof''.