u'v got a point sir,bt with all due respect sir,same sex marriage is no more bedroom affair,bcs the word marriage means building a family,and 4rm group of families comes community or society,nd 4rm group of communities and societies comes nation,which means great families create a great nation,and it means the better the families are in a nation the less damage they take,the question is,wot is the effect of gay family on our nation?i guess nothing than putting the right thing at the wrong place in the name of freedom,which will affect our nation one way or the other if we allow it,nd if it affects our nation,then its no more bedroom issue or private,it's public issue now,sorry sir.i'm nt with u on this sir!

Family Values MY foot........ Preach family values to the Civil Servant who resume at 11am, when dey are suppose to be at work...by 8am...or the politician who steals with impunity...preach that gospel to the corrupt policeman, or the latman official who will arrest you becos he feels like....Please save me that crap.......Examination Malpractice has become a norm.....I remember when special centre used to be as expensive as 30 to 49k...now it’s as cheap as 6k.... this values we claim to have...do they really exist anymore.......Premarital Pregnancy is on the increase......16 year old...take having sex as a norm...and you talk about values.....now whose business is it when People have Unprotected Premarital  sex and contact HIV.....those that not affect all of us....OR who arrest the Women that commit abortion.....or let me guess it’s a Part of our Values to commit abortion....and who told you any nation has Homosegxwalism  as a part of it values.....no body...its a social vice.....America does not accept the act as a good thing, but if they can’t jail a Fornicator or an Adulteress.....why jail someone who is gay.....

I agree on democracy issues and freedom but let's be brutally honest, Nigeria always hide behind USA and Canada et al to defend some stupid idea like the one Wole Soyinka is defending (gay rights). Why can't Wole Soyinka ask those gay people to learn how to create its own Apple product, Blackberry, Facebook, Aeroplanes, Space mission, Nuclear plant for stable electricity, robots and so many good things the USA and Canada and all other western countries are producing.Nigerians only emulate the bad side of foreign countries. ...last week an article was posted here that Nigeria is IMPORTING TOOTHPICK. If you can't enjoy 14years in Nigeria prison abeg carry your wahala go USA.


Sometimes I wonder what the future of my nation is.....reading your comment MY Dear Friend; i see that it is shrouded with so much hypocrisy and a lack of understanding. Wole never said that being gay was a good thing, nobody is saying that. What he pointed out was that the state had no business making laws concerning a person’s segxwality. Now you talk about gay people making inventions...really my friend...what’s the connection... and who told you the Americans invented homosegxwality, who told you it is a western thing...before America became a nation there were homosegxwals....Paul in the bible spoke about them....even during Moses’s time .....remember  Sodom....were this Americans....I don’t subscribe to people being gay....but i believe that outside the  sphere of religion people have the right to their segxwality.....  is being GAY worse than being a BODE George, or a James Ibori or even an Abacha......or the police man that collects 20 naira on the road.....OH you will say it is an abomination ... but so is a lying tongue, conventional pre-marital sex (which i won’t be surprise you are guilty of) .......please the only thing the Americans have done is to shun hypocrisy.....the most corrupt country where nothing works should do the same..... If you ok the ban and imprisonment....then pls ok the ban against Abortion (which no one is thinking of) or a bill to ban premarital sex, and adultery, and prostitution ...are all this not as Bad as being Gay....OH no for you they are normal.....WHO IS without sin...CAST THE first STONE.......
WE need to show them the love of God and try to bring them to the SAVING GRACE OF CHRIST.....