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21  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Bishop Oyedepo Faces N2 Billion Lawsuit For Assaulting Female Church Member on: 20-04-2012 06:43 PM
Correct let justice be served. Slappin a witch for jesus Roll Eyes
22  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: President Jonathan Attending Stephanie Okereke's Wedding In France on: 20-04-2012 06:42 PM
nah subsidy money he dey use go france smh. Boko haram dey promise attacks ma guy dey go watch wedding nothin dey sha
23  Forum / Celebrity Talk & Discussions / Re: Four Reasons Why Not To Dress Like A Ghanian on: 20-04-2012 06:39 PM
allow dem jaree make dem dey enjoy their funkiness
24  Forum / The Buzz Central / Re: Bollywood actress Meenakshi Thapar ‘beheaded by jealous rivals’ on: 20-04-2012 12:59 PM
nawaa
25  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Would U Invite Your Ex To Your Wedding? on: 20-04-2012 12:58 PM
Quote from: orangeb on 20-04-2012 08:59 AM
I've always wondered how an ex would feel at his old lovers wedding, some people would have a melt-down. Would you invite a guy/girl that you dated in the past to your wedding? And if they show up uninvited, what would you do? I personally would not mind if any of my past guys came to my wedding, it would be quite entertaining I think.  Wink Roll Eyes


Typical as u girls too like attention of any kind good or bad na why u na always get drama
26  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Why Do most nigeria Babes Have Stretch Marks On Their Behinds? on: 20-04-2012 12:52 PM
Quote from: neolyn1993 on 20-04-2012 12:20 PM
mr poster i dont blame u for this, tell me have u gone around and check,u open ur mouth and u are vomitting trash from it,u better respect ur self and let others respect u too,if i were to be n charge of girls u will never have any of us to urself. Sad Sad Sad Sad Sad Sad Sad

LMAO why so sensitive? If you gain or lose weight suddenly you will surely have stretch marks. Its no big deal at all me i be guy and me self get aint nothing to get bent out of shape about
27  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Why Do African Girls Break The Heart of Their Men on: 20-04-2012 05:58 AM
cus african men are daft enough to have their hearts broken
28  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Things Women Can Kill For on: 19-04-2012 09:08 PM
some babes dey very hot tempered sha really can't put violence past them in the heat of the moment. Just like some babes fit get mad and slap a guy knowing fully well that if the guy should retaliate fit result in death. Just last yr ex gf cut my tires and pour nonsense for my car just because i ignore am for 1 week. But not to be sexist in the heat of the moment guys fit do d same
29  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Things Women Can Kill For on: 19-04-2012 09:01 PM
lol that number 1 dey very funny. The reason why you would have to beg girl for sex 3hrs cus she already know say nah 3 second affair. If on a normal day u give the babe right there won't be need for any begging.
30  Forum / The Buzz Central / Re: Men Should Stop Seeing Me As A Symbol Of Sex - Lilian Bach on: 19-04-2012 08:27 PM
man remember when i was small watched married to a witch had to show all my friends i had seen the hottest naija babe but now she dry jaree just another light skinned babe
31  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: "Northerners can return to Agriculture if Nigeria break up" - Northern Leaders on: 19-04-2012 03:42 PM
Nigeria's agricultural industry is very under utilized as it is would be nice if the north embraced agriculture well so as to up nigerias food produuction
32  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: NO Sex Relationships? on: 19-04-2012 10:44 AM
very very possible but won't work for everybody
33  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: TRUE CONFESSION!!! on: 19-04-2012 10:42 AM
Quote from: Bachelorette on 18-04-2012 09:55 AM
   It's widely said that couples or lovers share everything together (Including Information), so how would you tell your significant other that you just had the most romantic moment in your life with someone else in your dream?

By telling her you are only asking for trouble. Everybody has fantasies even your significant other has fantasies so you can wait till she tells you her fantasies or just bone. My advice sha is to bone
34  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Right or wrong? Husbands lose interest when women become mothers on: 19-04-2012 10:39 AM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 19-04-2012 10:26 AM
my dear..heaven help dos who help demselves...

what if as she nolonger takes care of herself again.... and her p**sy is always smelling...na grace of God go make am not to smell again  abi Huh?

get some nice perfumes and some treatment person fit use for smelling honeypot. Bottom line is that as human beings we all have desires. When someone gets married its not that you suddenly become blind or your desires go away they are still there its just that women seem to be better at suppressing it than men. This has to do with the fact that a man cheating on his wife is very normal in society but vice versa is seen as very abnormal and since all you babes no like yourselves you are all quick to jump up to disgrace any woman two timing her husband as for us men we get nice pat on the back from our fellow men. Its not fair but thats why its a man's world Cool
35  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: I caught my friend's fiance in a Brothel, Should I tell my friend? on: 19-04-2012 10:32 AM
no guy appreciates a snitch, but if she is truly your friend then you should tell her because she would want to know. Just keep your story factual.
36  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: WHY DO COURTS RESOLVE WHAT GOD HAS JOINED TOGETHER FOR BETTER OR WORSE on: 19-04-2012 10:30 AM
Quote from: ruthazundah on 18-04-2012 10:03 PM
IT'S SHOCKING NOWADAYS THE RATE AT WHICH MARRIED COUPLES GET DIVORCED.
AND MY QUESTIONS ARE:
1.WHAT DOES THOSE SPOKEN VOWS STANDS FOR?
2. IS IT RIGHT FOR THE COURTS TO RESOLVE WHAT GOD HAS JOINED TOGETHER?
3. THE VOWS THAT WAS MADE BEFORE GOD AND MEN ON THAT FATEFUL DAY, WHY DO COUPLES THINK IS BROKEN AFTER DIVORCE?
4. FOR BETTER OR WORSE, IN SICKNESS AND IN HEALTH, FOR RICHER FOR POORER TILL DEATH DO US PATH.....DO COUPLES REALLY UNDERSTAND THAT IS ONLY DEATH  THAT CAN PART A MARRIAGE?
5. IS THE WORSE OMITTED FROM THE VOWS BEFORE CONSIDERING DIVORCE?

WITH THESE AND MANY MORE QUESTIONS TO BE ASKED I WONDER WHAT MARRIAGE (WEDDING PRECISELY) IS ALL ABOUT.

FEEL FREE TO CONTRIBUTE..............

1. Vows are just vows and nothing more. Look at it like a promise i have made many promises in my life and i have broken some. When i made those promises i didn't know i was going to break them but i broke it anyway because it no longer became convenient for me to keep such a promise. Promises with marriage are very tricky because they involve promises made between two individuals. And as soon as one feels like the other is not holding up his/her end of the bargain it makes it all the more easier and justifiable to end the vow.

2. Well unless God speaks to you in a vision and says "that is the woman/man i want you to marry" then nobody including the partners should try to split up the couple because common sense will tell you not to mess with God's commandment. However the reality is we see someone we like we date them then we marry with little consultation for God. Even when we pray about it, can you say 100% that you are doing it with an open mind? unlikely. When you meet guy or girl after a while you already know if this is the kind of person you want to spend your life with any prayer done after that is more like "please God let this man or woman be good for me" and less like "Is this person the one for me"

3. You don't even need to divorce to break your vows. Love is an emotion that one can't really control if you end up loving someone else or not loving the person you are with anymore is it better to suffer and smile in the relationship? I know ppl will say you should try harder but true love isn't something you should have to TRY for. As soon as love is dead whether divorce or no divorce the vow is broken already so might as well just divorce.

4. well it depends on how you define marriage. If you define marriage as simply a list of commitments then you can make such a claim but it isn't. Marriage is not a business transaction it is not a contract it is merely a commitment that two people enter into willingly. As soon as one person is no longer a willing participant then bone d marriage.

5. Well i believe love can conquer all. The people that are in my life that i love there is probably no state or condition they can be in that will stop me from loving them because that is true love. Anyone abandoning their partner because they are in a worse situation never felt true love to begin with so they shouldn't even have gotten married in the first place. So better late than never end the marriage

Me i am VERY VERY VERY pro divorce and i will debate on the merits of divorce till i die. I see all these babes i know rushing into marriage you see one random guy and 2 days later he is telling you he loves you and then d babe chops then they marry. The reason why divorce rate isn't higher imo is because of the societal stigma divorce still carries especially in naija society. The only way to effectively lower divorce rate is to encourage ppl to choose their partners more carefully but there is no way to mandate that in a free will society.

My advice to you if you are married is to never take your partner for granted and actively work to keep the relationship moving well. If you are not married be very very meticulous as you choose your partner. I believe that when ppl get married they truly intend to only do it once but they just don't fully grasp the implication of committing yourself to this person for the rest of your life. Like me i can't marry someone until we date for at least 2 yrs and thats the minimum because it is only after 2 yrs do ppl show their true colours all the fronting go seize then you can get a true factual glimpse of your partner and decide whether or not you want to stick with them or not
37  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Right or wrong? Husbands lose interest when women become mothers on: 19-04-2012 09:41 AM
me i never marry and i no get pikin yet but i don't think men lose interest in their wives because of kids. The thing with in relationship after a couple of years ppl just take each other for granted. The guy might cheat on the babe but having child has nothing to do with it. Its simply just that guys eyes to dey shine and hard to just have sex with one person for the rest of your life. Ppl wey dey do am suppose tell d secret cus no matter what desire no go leave u it just depends on how good one is at suppressing his or her desire...me i must confess i am terrible
38  Forum / The Buzz Central / Re: Lynxxx Gets Punk'd On MTV Big Friday Show on: 19-04-2012 09:36 AM
lol after all these years kc boys will always be kc boy see as d guy just wan fight sha
39  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: BUSTED: Oshiomhole’s Multi-Billion Naira Mansion Exposed on: 19-04-2012 09:34 AM
nawaa sha. I went to school with one of his sons and we are friends and as far as i know his family has always had money long before 2008. Dunno if he is guilty or innocent but what i know is that dude has always had money. So i am inclined to believe the statement that he built houses a long time ago. 20 yrs is very long ago sha dunno if he had money then but i would say definitely long before he became governor
40  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Show of Shame..Pictures of Nigeria young gays (Page 13) on: 19-04-2012 04:08 AM
As far as homosegxwality, how is it degrading society please explain to me? I was born and bred in lagos and i have only been to lagos and osun state in naija but from what i have seen with my own eyes naija society (or any society that i have seen) is far from perfect and full of numerous issues and i am yet to see how homosegxwality is responsible
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