does this mean that Edo men doesn't care, all they want if for you to make money and they allow mess aroun??? Point of correction, if you've dated a nosy igbo does not mean dat all igbo men are nosy, come to think of it, you ain't ready for marriage whomsoever loves you will always care about your personal affairs. It seems u just want to get married and continue living the life of a single lady, no way girl No Igbo Man can take that so wake up. Edo men, una don hear abi, u guys want the good things of life without caring about how it came.
Keep waiting, the guy will find you someday, maybe in the next 50yrs!!! You said it yourself, you can't help a man who cannot help himself, so it is dear, you cannot be found unless you want to be found.
Good judgement, let's see what happens after the two weeks. But for the woman, you should learn to understand that being submissive at ALL times can solve this problem.
Why are you not believing him? If you really really like him, take a further step and start dating and loving him, there is nothing wrong in that, cause you may never know the outcome of the relationship.