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221  Forum / The Buzz Central / Re: watch nigerian top chinese singer on: 23-07-2011 11:01 PM
I am impressed. Very. Its exhilarating to find such goodness blossoming in places where we heard had had bad things going on (between Nigerians and local people of host lands).
The thing is, we have to be aware, justice will usually be substandard. Host lands will try protect their own people first, sad but in reality that's what happened. Unless you have a community organised that will look into the general welfare of the Nigerians, at least these interet groups can do somethings to help. Its unfortunate that Nigerians now has a stigma going on for a while because of the negative things they've done. But nothing is irreversible. Nigeria is a very strong and good country way back then, build it up again to be one of the most respectable.
@frayobkk-I am sorry he was your friend that was executed in Vietnam. I won't know how to handle the death of someone I know in that manner, except maybe say many good prayers so he will have a better afterlife. That act will also be for me, so I can live with it.
222  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: 5 Important Things You Should Not Be Afraid To Talk About on: 23-07-2011 02:34 PM
Quote from: dirtykid on 22-07-2011 02:45 AM
Grin Grin

This has nothing to do with your comments, but I can't stand looking at your roasted chicken/ turkey/ whatever it is. Eiikk..
223  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: why do black men go for white girls on: 23-07-2011 02:28 PM
Quote from: Kemp on  1-11-2008 07:31 PM
Not dat blck r not good..but white girls r more understanding,emotional and something u can't take frm dem is dat they r more salacious

REALLY???

"Salacious"? Thought the blacks has more?
224  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Akwa Ibom - Where Boys Marry Corpses on: 22-07-2011 10:04 AM
Mind over matter. Sleeping with a corpse could be manageable, but if its starting to decompose, the room should be very very cold. The culture is wanting to treat the woman with respect. The man was comfortable enough to accomodate her when she was alive and had a relationship amidst having a good family with a wife and children. This is only on earth, imagine the penalty if he has done wrong, and has not repented appropriately before 'after-life'? God is fair and just, he lets him get this discomfort during his lifetime, and not afterwards. Richness, money can be gained back, he just needs to be strong. Just do the right thing. He has taken her into his "care" by providing a home - ie. rented it out for her, and paid dues for her brother whom is in his school -all actions not surmountable to him (not his responsibility) but only for his wife, children and rightful siblings.He did not have consent with the woman's family when he did all these for her then. Ofcourse, he was not wrong if he hadn't expected any "favours" back from the deceased woman, that he only did all those out of the sincerity of his heart and for God and the sake of humanity. I don't know that Ibom culture in depth but from the professor's explanation, it has taken steps to make their girls and women respectably treated. Interesting how good seems bad and how bad can seem to be good. Devil has a smart ways to entice and distracts human from going to heaven and doing the right thing.
225  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Women blame UNIPORT rape, death on FG on: 21-07-2011 02:08 PM
this is a horrid news...very sad...till the girls died? And this happened at a university? Dreadful...
226  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Should i rape her? on: 21-07-2011 02:01 PM
When she, say gives in to you, you won't like her as much. Your motivation to be with her is already skewered. Your mind is already for physical reasons.Not that its entirely wrong, humans err...boys grrr, and girls also purrr. There are ways to dampen segxwal urges, one of them by eating the 'right' food -some cultures say, take less beef or any aphrodisiacally related food. If you are serious about keeping your relationship with her, and she doesn't want sex now, be fair.Do the right thing, fear God.
227  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: How To Win An Argument With A Guy on: 21-07-2011 01:48 PM
Quote from: tando on 21-07-2011 01:32 PM
dont ask questions or argue with him, keep quite. men cant take it when you are quite because they dont know what you are thinking. most men are afraid of women that they will poision them when quite.

Can someone explain no.5 please.

You do mean, men thought when women are quiet, that implies they are so bitter and angry, that they could even poison them?

Men, women, we have to be pure at heart.If we cry, cry for real, not to manipulate.
228  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: 84 year-old nigerian who marry 86 wives is in detention.53 of the wives protest on: 21-07-2011 07:01 AM
Surah An-Nisa from the Quran stated men can marry 1, 2, 3 or up to 4, but if 1 is good for him to manage so 1 wife it is. Most men cannot manage even 1 wife.But to marry more than 4 is not in accordance to Allah's wants. Men is polygamous but not all should try polygamy.Think of the welfare of the offsprings.Most men do not get involved with the development and raising of their kids.That is wrong, to leave all to the wives.
229  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: How To Win An Argument With A Guy on: 21-07-2011 06:47 AM
Quote from: Enviberry on 20-07-2011 09:14 PM
1.   Do that thing we find endearing
All men have at least one thing our significant other does that we find so damn adorable it reminds us why we fell for her to begin with. My lady is diminutive by any measure, and so she has about five or six of those things – usually leading with sad puppy-dog eyes – that make me forget that she cussed me out five minutes prior.

2. Tears are the first cousin of the endearing trait: they make us melt, only because crying makes most dudes uncomfortable and we don’t like seeing you in pain. If you want to convince us that giving the mailman a happy ending was somehow OUR fault, consider the waterworks.

3. 3.   Use sex as a weapon
It’s using a man’s biggest weakness against him, and it’s oh so easy for a girlfriend to do. Resolving a heated argument with sex allows you to quell a lot of tension, because orgasms tend to be effective for bringing people back to a better problem-solving mind state.

4.   Cook us a meal
C’mon, it’s food. Leave the fight, hook up a steak and some scalloped potatoes, and come back to us. Add a Corona to the mix, and what argument?

5.   Use logic
This, I think, is the hardest thing for women to do. Concerns about sounding sexist be damned: when women get effusive with the high emotions, logic and reason say “bye-bye.” This is no way to solve an argument. Consider going against expectations and have a pragmatic conversation. We’ll respect you immensely for it.

Number 2,3,and 4 really works for me.loool

PLEASE GIVE 5 ANO EXAMPLE. TQ.

230  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Female "jesus"? 21 Years Old Resurrects From Death After 2 Days In Mortuary on: 18-07-2011 11:24 PM
It is not her time yet. But she'll need a lot of attention to recuperate her health and psychs.
231  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: 20 Cultists Arrested For Forcing Girls To Have Sex With Each Other (Lesbianism) on: 16-07-2011 01:58 AM
The drive is money or cultism-first time I read an occult asks for such things, but I understand money is usually the motivator for some people to force others do things without their will but their gains.
232  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Nigerians are world’s most segxwally active - Research on: 15-07-2011 11:31 AM
Quote from: democrazy on 14-09-2007 05:09 AM
Naija girls, question 4 u,

Will you prefer a guy that other girls don't find attractive and will happily leave alone for you?



YES. I want other women to leave my Naija man alone for me. Even when I am not a Naija woman.
233  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Robber gets over- powered by a female and used as a sex slave! on: 14-07-2011 02:17 PM
Quote from: ndjoe on 13-07-2011 10:13 PM
lolz i love dis story abeg where de salon dey? make i go rob de woman,

LOL!!...But, the robber would feel offended it seems that we ridicule his predicament. He's still human though, and doesn't want to be treated like a slave....LOL!
234  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Nigerian girl faces racist threat for winning UK beauty contest on: 14-07-2011 01:52 PM
Quote from: dguy on 23-04-2009 09:30 PM
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IT is another case of racial discrimination in the United Kingdom (UK), as Nigerian-born Miss Helen Lawal, who won a beauty competition and was crowned Miss York now faces threat to her life for being a black girl.

In a telephone call to the organiser of the beauty contest, Vivienne Lee, a man who named himself as "Mr. Paver" was alleged to have complained about Helen Lawal's participating in the competition and made a series of racial comments about "these people being allowed into the country."

Miss Lee, who is worried about the safety of Miss Lawal who will compete in the Miss England contest in July, has already reported the matter to the North Yorkshire Police, who have commenced investigation of the calls.

According to a report in the Tuesday edition of The Daily Telegraph, the 13-year old Nigerian-born Lawal, who won the competition earlier this month, is the reigning Miss Black Britain. She is a student at Hull York Medical School.

In her report to the police, Lee said: " A man with Yorkshire accent called me to say there shouldn't be a black person representing York and he said he would 'get all of us.'

"He said the winner should have been indigenous to this country and she should not have been eligible for it because she was born in Nigeria.

"He added that I was an absolute disgrace for letting a black girl win. I tried to explain to him the eligibility rules that as long as you have a British passport, you can enter."

The Daily Telegraph informs that although Miss Lawal was born in Nigeria, she went to UK as a toddler and has a British passport. Her father, Mustapha is a surgeon in Africa and her mother Sue, a nurse, is white and lives in Yorkshire. Miss Lawal is a medical student at the Hull York Medical School, based at the University of York.

In a statement, the North Yorkshire Police were quoted to have said " we can confirm that a malicious call involving racist statements was reported to us on Friday, April 17. We take the issue of hate crimes very seriously and will investigate."


Source:
http://odili.net/news/source/2009/apr/23/21.html


York County, UK has already begun a policy that does not allow foreigners to be encouraged to stay in their region.I forgot the detail, but it has to do with keeping that country "pure" for the "local" only.There is a documentary or a news coverage for this in 2009, so, don't try and be homy in York, they don't like foreigners to stay there and build a home...let alone a mixed girl to win the beauty contest and represent their county.Go to London, its metropolitan city.A mixing pot of all cultures and races.Very international and more tolerant to foreigners. But England is far racially tolerant than anywhere else in Europe it seems....for now.
235  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: I’ve Been molesting Women For 15 Yrs on: 14-07-2011 12:18 PM
Quote from: chudy1800 on 21-05-2010 10:07 AM
He is not normal,even molesting 10yrs Girl and pregnant woman.He suppose to be given life imprisonment.
Does he deserve to be stoned?
236  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Somali Man Stoned To Death By Militants For Adultery (GRAPHIC PHOTOS on: 14-07-2011 12:06 PM
Quote from: Bismack on  2-08-2010 03:03 AM
Some pple prefer d dark ages 2 civilisation.
I have been observing people around the globe, and read accounts of behavior of humans be them 100 years ago, 1000 years ago, or current.They are almost the same. When humans think "THEY CAN GET AWAY WITH IT", and has no fear of God or an almighty being, they will do what they want.Anything.Name it.If one has seen genocides, be them done in WWII by Germans unto Jews, or Japan unto Chinese in Manchuria, or what happens in Kosovo, the aftermath of Yugoslavia, Czechoslovakia, generally in any wars be them civil or neither, bad humans do bad things to other weaker humans.Its still the same. We thought civilised societies are better in treating one another? Not really. What do men do to women who allows them to dominate, and made them subs, watch BDSM, its not just a fantasy, its an acceptable lifestyle for most western culture.And what do some subcultures allow with married people, the 'swingers' for instance, they exchange wives.Its all happening in the current civilisation, not in the dark ages. We look up to the west for being civilised and thought their human rights are all good.Its a double edged sword.Yes, they will say this eastern cultures, or this certain religion are barbaric, but they still want to enslave others subconsciously; through economic, financial and educational means.
237  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Jungle Justice: Kenya Crowd Stoned A Thief To Death [Video Inside] on: 14-07-2011 11:41 AM
Quote from: whome on 13-07-2011 03:20 PM
I want you all to watch a clip similiar to that :http://www.worldstaruncut.com/uncut/35476

I felt my migraine shot up watching that shared link.What do you think would happen, if one audience tried to help that burned fellow? I am not familiar with African culture yet, but my instinct would be to put off that fire. Has anybody heard how a burnt person howl?Its not good.
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