dont mind all this greedy nigerian girls , they see thier boyfriends as fcuking ATM machines, if you wanna earn a guy's respect you should ask to contribute to the bills, he might not allow you to pay , but you've scored a strong point, to tell you ladies the truth, men these days prefer women who can take care of themselves,the first date might be a perfect time for you to create a lasting impression, , no dude in his right mind would like to tangle with a baggage, even if his cash flow is unlimited.
U have said it all bro but just to contribute to what u 've said, what is really wrong with the girls of these days?? is not just abt nigeria or africa girls but girls all over the world.... If a woman wanna earn herself a respect, her first date is the right time to gain it.... As soon as u turn ur self to a hungry woman or poor begger then u automatically make ur self a cheap slot and men will take the advantage of that... Pls poster change that mentality of urs being smart because u are not rather fooling and disgracing ur self b4 a man that will never wanna see u again in his life .. Like someone had earlier said, there may be something the young man doesnt like abt u and u dont expect him to waste his money 4 nothing just because he wanna please u, do u?? that is one of the reason while most of u ladies are jump from one man to another yet none of them will take u serious because u make ur self so cheap.... well just a word of advice, take note and no hurt feelings........ God bless u all