I am a very busy man just like your husband and I use to wonder what will happen to me when eventually I get married to a lady. What we are going to be doing with the sex side of married. In as much as I admire sexy women I would not want a nymphomaniac for a wife since the worst sin as far as I believe is infedelity in marriage. But I believe if my wife would be very reasonable and understanding with me, we can be able to maintain a good balance between work and sex ocassions in our marriage. I do have day-offs every other seventh day and I believe whoever I get married to should also be able to know about my schedules and try to fix things in accordingly. So that in that way will will not have to be too far away from each other any way. I believe your husband also has some day of from time to time. Although he may not always be there any time you need him, try to let him understand that his free days are meant for you and him and not for instance to be spent in bars and club houses, at a friend's, cinema, infront of the computer or even in the house of God as may be some individual cases. Find out what your husband does at his leisure times and make sure you tie him down any day he is of-work. That way he will not have to go after other less importance things as far as your marriage is concerned.
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