please for God sake. Get married because life is not what we (human being hold) we time to come to this life and the time to live also time to Die. whereby no one know the time he/she is going die. we dont know the period of our lifetime. she was born into this life thru marriage. she should also get married on time and procreate and train the children because retirement from struggling. and her children growing before she died. with God marriage will not stop education. that is why we have distance learning. please, please, and please get married. your people were very very collect. solution, if you dont have any realiable person before, you should start searching and get correct man to settle with. But prayer is the key. man propose God dispose