well my favourite song for now is Ololufe and brown eyez by destiny child

well the truth is i am. and although people will think all those people that are hung up on no sex till after marriage but no i just want it to be special and not being pressured into doing it. so that even we dont end up getting hitched i will cherish that moment and not be full of regret and the nasty feeling of being used.

People are fund of sitting on their high pedestal while judging others but do not put themselves in other peoples shoes. i am of the view that it depends on the circumstances. the issue at hand should be that before u engage ur self in pre marital sex u should be able to stand on ur own and possibly be able to take care of a child. imagine one who is not financially, emotionally stable and who as no ones help and support having a child u r practically ruining the childs life even b4 birth. i know of someone whose child died becos she had no ones support not even are parent or the childs father and the child was sick, and there was no money to pay for hospital bills the child died in pains. other circumstance i cant begin to write. so we should try and be objective before taking a stance in this matter, the issue should be when should one start being segxwally active