hmmmmmmmmmm jim and desmond

off d scale

Agree with ndjoe exactly, i love challenges of marriage, it'd be boring if there werent no challenges in life or in marriage, no marriage is perfect, even single life can be difficult lol, its what you make it, and if you fall at a hurdle you dont give up! you get up and keep going. so yes marriage for me, would hate to be a dusty singleton left on the shelf to pass its shelf life

Single most def coz your not 2nd best then... and i wouldnt really like dat thought of there other life and what they get upto indoors, dat'd be torturous lol, but as they say play with fire get your fingers burnt!

Omotola beautiful, I think nadia very pretty but aint she Ghanian?? not Nigerian.... although does nolly movies!?!

Hiya yeah nice meet yu too, sorry we both in d uk bt hubbie from naija

Am in UK but hubbie naija

I have done but with husbands knowledge, it weren't nothing like sweet reminiscing lol or anything just to see how i were and to congratulate us on our marriage and stuff, but that were it, no out of hours texts etc, i wouldnt do that as i wouldnt expect it done to me, but he has spoken with his ex also, and we tell each other if and when or when crops up   but i suppose it depends on circumastance also, history or whatever as no history is the same.

I love that quote you wont reap what you didnt sow! i have never been with a married man, not even for one off fun, like most  especially of my country! i like to put myself in shoes of how it would feel if it were done to me, and it has and i forgave, but it were damn painful! she thought she was gaining everything, and said how can you stay with him! my words were its love and i take my vows very seriously, i am loyal and i believe my marriage is worth fighting for not some cheap fcuk... anyway still here to tell tale so nope if i were a singleton i would firmly steer single guys.
anyway well said all comments here.... xx

hahahahaa

I am married to a nigerian and from experience they are far from lazy! white men are lazy cant be assed and go down pub! whereas i like a man to take control and we both pay our way, share and have a lovely healthy marriage! Its a load of s***!!! and what about her religion and culture!! whilst they do all cooking and crap in there countries anyway not gonna get started on this subject as pains me hearing people slag of what they dont know.... xx

OMG! stealing from d dead is lowest of low if you can do that you are capable of anything

thank goodness

love this i agree totally!