my dear go back and read your bible and seek for understanding. even if you are a sinner, one of the criteria for forgiveness is you must be humble before God, before seeking for His face. If that girl could yell back at the man of God, if Christ rebuke her she will also rebuke back.
But the good news my brother is that : Christ shows us what humbleness is all about and accepts us wholeheartedly when we turn back to him!!! The reverend did not humble himself as a man of God would...too bad an example for a sinner!!!
I went back to my bible and it says: Donot judge so u won't be judged!!! If Christ would be like him and condemn us immediately he recognises us as sinners, then there won't be any chance for repentance!!!