The question is very interesting, when you are in a relationship and in love with each other, good you should always put in your best for a good result.
1.Tolerance
2.Honesty
3.Respect
4.sincerity
5.Good will
6.Forgiving act
7. and continuous conversation.
All this are very essential, when you have this then you can move on with your plans, a relationship is never perfect just like a marriage, we are all perfect human, whatever you do with your partner determines your relationship. whatever then puts you off you should be able to let your partner know about it we are all raised from different homes, different parents. So most times we see it in different ways, the point is you may or may not be able to change a person. Jadesola.