good job ladies, good team work, dont date or marry a lazy man. You dont have to be rich but laziness is a no no

wow, i like his choice of a woman.  I am  very slim  and have never been  big all my life but i hate the new craze among some men aboout slim gals, they make it look like  big and fat gals are some sort of taboo and shouldnt have a bf or hubby.  Sooooooo  impressed to see men who know what they want and go for it, it is diversity that makes the world a fun place.

only a coward  put his hands on a woman. such men are generally angry at life and dont have the courage to handle life challanges with maturity. in most cases they feel intimidated by their fellow men, so they take it out on their women. any gal dating such a weakling shuld quit the relationship as soon as the signs are obvious, coz it can only get worse. there is never a justifiable reason for a man to beat a woman.

this is why i dont blame single rich girls when they go for only single rich guy; coz all these lazy, poor and greedy guys who will desperately come after a rich girl or a girl with potentials just coz of what they will gain from her. It is always good to marry someone in your own class, a hardworking guy that aint greedy for money. Real men dont demand for money from their women, they work and take care of their women and kids financially.  Even the Bible said that any man who cant provide for his family is worse than an infidel. Girsl be careful, a man that loves you will never ask for money from you, he will not even care to know how much you have or how much your salary is. Girls, run away from lazy and greedy men, they never have love in their dictionary and how you know them is that they always "fall in love" with only rich girls, girls from rich homes, and girls that have great potential to succeed in life. They never fall in love with poor struggling girls, check their past relationships and you will see that they are never "in love" with ordinary gals.  While talking about the poor gals , they will say, " i never  truly loved that girl",

as far as i am concerned, all politicians are full of fake dramas, they are greedy, heartless and evil. Everything about them is full of deceit, this being said, this is a fake cry, fake tears if at all politicians still have tears in their eyes coz i knw they dont have a heart. All they care about is fat bank account  in both local and foreign accounts.

I love her guts, she is one actress that knows what she wants and goes for it without thinking about what people will say. In this life, all that matters in decision making is if you are happy with your choice. Pleasing people is the worse thing ever, coz people will always talk, either good or bad. Gal,  u did the right thing as long as you and your hubby are happy , forget  jealous and lousy people that cant put their lives together , who are always available to talk bad about other coz their own life is already a mess which is y they always have free time  on  their side.......

Best  thing that have been posted on naijapals ever!!!! This is so true, every girl need to read this. I will have to send this link to all the girls i know and tell them to send it to all the girls they know. This will save girls alot of troubles.  God bless you poster for this truthful post, you won't know how many girls you would have saved from the hands of all these men by this info. I wish girls will always come up with such info and inform each other about it too.
YOU ROCK GAL!!!!!!!!  This post should win 2012 naijapals award, hehehehe, love it

that is just wickedness, white or black shouldnt be the issue, human being should be treated a human being. the truth is that our men are wicked and selfish, they marry these white gals  in order to get a stay, once they get wat they want, they start acting funny and leave the relationship. Their excuse then will be that white gals are controlling, but wait a minute, are they telling us that all those years that they were in the relationship waiting to ge their paper, is it that the gals werent controlling then? the only thingi will tell these heartless naija men is the they will definitely reap what they sow, when they go to naija and marry, the gal will come to europe and dump them, then u will hear them cry like fools saying naija gals come to europe and become westernized.  regarding the ill treatment of naija men to their fellow naija women, it is only naija women who dont have value for themselves that stay in a cheating and abusive relationship, all you have to do when your hubby decides to be stupid is to leave the kids with him and go away, the kids belong to him and his famliy,  you go out and be happy instead of dying  of sadness and neglect in a misrable marriage

heheheh, i cant stop laughing, this is childish, i mean this level of jealousy is damn too childish. Somebody should tell this man and his likes that it is not always a man that dumps a woman, this the 21st century, if a man didnt treat his wife good, she will leave him. And if she is one of those strong women with good character, another mn that deserve her will quickly marry her if she wants to get into another marriage.  So, dont be toooooo jealous, a woman can leave a bad man and get married again. African men need to grow up and start being reasonable, they should know that just as a man can leave a relationship, a woman can also leave a relationship, It is not only men that do the dumping. Women dump also and move on also.   If you want to keep your woman, be a real man, and you wont  be making a fool of yourself by such a public show of jealousy.

Your naija girlfriend will be the biggest fool to take you back after God has shown her what a marriage with you wll be like. Who will want to get married to a looser who doesnt have self respect, a looser who will phyuk every  available girl , then come up with an excuse of the girl being an ex gf. Once a cheat, always a cheat. You have a big problrm, you have chosen to live a life without self discipline, you have chosen to live a life that will cause your patner pain, and you even have the mouth to say you are shocked that after 4 days of begging, she ended the relationship. Your type are just heartless and brutal, your type wont ever take back a  girl that cheated on you, yet you want her to forgive you and take you back.  IF YOU WANT A GIRL TO LOVE YOU, LOVE HER FIRST, IF YOU WANT A GIRL TO BE FAITHFUL TO YOU, BE FAITHFUL TO HER FIRST. WHAT YOU SOW IS WHAT YOU WILL REAP. I dont care how inncoent you want to make yourself look in this confession, you aint innocent at all. You are in a relationship leading up to marriage, you cheated on ur wife to be, and you made your ex gf cheat on her bf.  YOU ARE SIMPLE A WICKED AND HEARTLESS PERSON.

this is not a fair judgment, he is supposed to get a life sentence for killing someone, anger is not an excuse for killing someone, he is just a wicked and a jealous guy. So he was angry and his  anger let him strip her naked and burn her clothes after killing her?? This is not anger, this is pre-meditated murder, he should get a life sentence.

Hahahah, "eat and follow". I believe she use jazz on the guy, she is a cheat, coz  when two people are friends, they share alot in common. So if she is accusing the guy baby mama as being a cheat, she herself is definitely the worse cheat, she is a very  wayward gal, coz if she aint into such a life, she wont feel comfortable snitching on her friend, she will be hard on her friend and seriously talk her into stopping the cheating thing. But coz she is a worse cheat than her friend, she didnt scold her friend, she went to her friend's hubby and reported her. Lol!!, what a professional cheat this gal is, a shameless one at that.  Very soon she will come back to this site and say that men are wicked, they cant be trusted, that she went through a lot for this guy she love but he dumped her for another gal. Hahaha, it will soon happen, Karma  doesnt  fail.

what you did is very bad. She was your friend, if she was cheating on her baby daddy, what you should have done is to talk to her and make sure she quit cheating on him, or you stop being friends with her and her baby daddy. But no, you didnt do that, you went to tell her baby daddy that she was cheating on him, there must be a reason why you did that. I know that the reason was coz you want to snatch him from her, but guess what, karma is a bitch. If that man could listen to a gossip from you and leave his baby mama, and worse of all , he had the guts to date you, then he has a big problem. What kind of a man will be comfortable dating his baby mama girlfriend, if not that the man has issues on his own. Watch it, that man will never trust and respect you, he will always see you as a snitch and he  when he sees a decent girl that he truely loves, stories will come up...... am sure you know what i mean... he will quit the realtionship he is having with you  after cheating on you. Karma is a very heartless bitch.

One mistake girls should never make is to be giving a man money. Let your man be a man, let him go out there and find a way to make money like other men, men are suppose to be in charge financially, so it is never right for a girl to be in charge financially. So you really made a huge mistake on that. Also, men that are comfortable with collecting money from girls are not always in love with the girl, coz if ur man loves u, he will want to provide for u and protect u. So this guy may have  been in that relationship just for the financial gains, now he seems to have gotten enough money from u and wants to leave, so the news about u having a kid out of wedlock was a good excuse to end the relationship. But on ur part, u werent totaally honest with him, u should have told him from day one  about ur child.  I understand that men shy away from marrying girls that have kids out of wedlock, also girls shy away from marrying men  that have kid out of wedlock. But u should have been honest with him from the begining. Colelct ur car back from him, coz the fact that u have a kid shouldnt be enough reason for him to quit the relationship, he  should be angry for a while but not quit. The fact that he quit the relationship showed he was looking for a way to  walk, and this issue presented a good opportunity for him. Get ur car abck and move on. Next time dont spend a dime on any man, and try and be honest about ur past.

Great response, God is love, if someone doesnt appreciate your love, go to another person that will appreciate it.

hehehe, this is funny. but in actual sense, i dont see the guy that feel in love with the girl as a fool, rather the girl that wasnt wise enough to know that it is better for her to stay with a man that love her than the man she loves is the big fool. Real men love their babes, while real women choose to stay with the guy that loves them, not the guy they love.

once a rapist, always a rapist. they need to cut off his dick, else he will rape again.

this is too bad, how can people be so wicked to strip a girl naked and put her Nood picture and video on the web, just because she stole a blackberry. it is bad enough that she stole it, but she should just be jailed or something, rather than stripping her naked. How many arm robber who were caught in nigeria have been stripped naked and video taped Nood. Is this because she is a girl? Will they strip a guy that stole blackberry Nood??

God can arrest anyone at any point in time, that is why he is the almighty. I am happy for her because now, she will start to experience real joy and happiness, the type that the world cant give, the type that money cant buy.  Thank God for his power and his mercies.

this one is a sad news, i pity the family. but where is the married man that doesnt know how to put  his "junk" where it belong, why is he so  bad as to date two sisters.  but girls should know that money isnt everything, both men and women should learn to respect themselves. na waooo, this is a very bad one, so na so this life take waka. sorry to the family for their loss, but the should also put the sugar daddy in jail.