Most women are fond of doing  things  secretly with thier ex after marriage. Like chatting on BBM and facebook etc without d knowlegde of thier spouse. Am asking my naijapals dudes,will u allow this to happen right before ur face?  

Being a real woman is an art mostly pleasant, but demanding some skills and knowledge. As we all know, there are no unbeautiful women, there are women who don't know that they're beautiful. A woman is only what she makes it of herself. There are some tricks that make a woman the real one, and help her to bear that name proudly. These recommendations aren'he rules. The only definite rule is the inner feeling of a woman that she is the one and the only, but never just one of a kind.

A real woman is independent. She's always busy on her own business. It can be whatever  job, hobbies, interests. She has no time to deal with the problems and affairs of others. That doesn't mean she is selfish and takes no compassion on others. She will always be there for her relatives and friends willing to listen to their complaints and to help.

A woman shouldn't solve man's problems. This prerogative is male . A man is the one supposed to take care of a woman.

A real woman can't ever be had over the barrel. She is always well-dressed with her hair and make-up done. Be ready that anything can happen all of a sudden. You'll say it is hard to look nice all the time ..but for a real woman it's a habit.

A woman should always stay calm and relaxed, behaving as if nothing in this world really troubles her. All the attacks of nerves and hysterics are not for public. You'd better never let them see you cry. Tears have a strong effect on men, but don't abuse it.

Money shouldn't become the necessity of real woman's life. If she has money she spends it, when she is short of money she doesn't care, or just pretends she doesn't.

A real woman always has a couple of really good and expensive dresses in her wardrobe. They play the role of a parade costume for cases when it's necessary to make an impression.

One can say there are only must do and must have for a so-called real woman. But there are many free to do, or not to do for her either. The most are provided by men who are ready to forgive her almost everything for just one charming smile, which is supposed to be saying sorry.

A woman can let herself be late. 10-15 minutes late is almost on time. 45 minutes   he'll be only glad that you finally appeared. It's always better for a woman to be late, rather than to run in a hurry. Men tend to forgive a woman her mood swings, sudden changes of the decisions, promises forgotten and etc.

A real woman can let herself twist men round her little finger. She may stay mysteriously silent, complain that she's bored, act stupid or start a passionate scientific argument. Nobody can make a woman answer a question if she doesn't want to, and nobody can force her explain the reasons for doing/not doing this or that. Acting so capricious and unbalanced is a simple way to get a man attached to a woman. Don't hesitate to make a man spend as much money on you as he can afford  he will never leave an object of capital investments.

A woman knows her worth, but makes everyone believe shes priceless. Everything she does - she does it with elegance. She knows how to make men dance to her tune and she really enjoys it. She always stays independent, careless and free. She knows what she wants, and will never let anyone stay in her way. A real woman is quite self-confident not to care about the rumors or public opinion, holding her head up high.

If a woman wants to be a real one, she shouldn't be afraid of changes and mistakes. It's never too late to make another attempt.

 

onche..take tym oo

There are many ways that first kiss can go terribly wrong, but most are easily avoided.

BEWARE:



>Moving too quickly
Be careful not to startle the kissee - watch and wait for the signal to proceed
If you aren't sensitive in your kissing, how empathetic and caring can you be about the rest of the realtionship...
> Wet, sloshy, squishy, fishy
If you or the kissee need to wipe your lips, or chin, dry after the kiss - well, it wasn't 'perfect' was it?
> Smash-mouth smothering kiss of death
Avoid the over-passionate, insensitive kiss that leaves the kissee gasping for air.
>Chapped, Cactus Lips
There's a delicate balance to lip moisture equation. The last thing you want to do is drool on your partner, but you definitely don't want to leave scars with crispy, chafed lips.
>Too much Tongue and Too Much, Too Soon
Keep that tongue tucked away until you get the right signals, then apply with caution - later
>Dragon Breath
A mint or two, breath saver, gum, spray - anything to get rid of gunk-mouth.
>Weak, Wobbly or Wooden Passionless Pecks
The swoop in and bounce out kiss is simply meaningless - unless you want to impart a "let's just sort-of be friends" type of message.
>Smacking, Clacking Loud Kisses
The old "clack and smack" kills romance in a flash.

DO NOT SAY I DIDN'T WARN YOU...BEWARE!!!

1. Always snuggle. My reply: ALWAYS???
2. Kiss him passionately and with much passion Kiss
3. Give him romantic presents
4. Always say "I Love You" - those three words mean a lot...
5. Cuddle and give him big hugs
6. Try cuddling on the sofa and watching romance movies together(really sweet!)
7. Always share your joy with him
8. Take pictures together and have fun!
9. Share your secrets with him
10. Always let him know you care
11. Give him a good massage if you are good at that kind of thing! Wink
12. If he is angry,you keep out of his way till he calms down!
13. Always sing together with him
14. Run your finger through his hair just above his ear to help him fall asleep Note : Not all guys like this! SOME DON'T MIND BECAUSE THEY LOVE BEING PAMPERED! Smiley
15. Prepare candlelight/Romantic dinners and let him come home to it/just as surprise to show how romantic you can be! he would love it!trust me! Wink
16. Always laugh at his jokes even if they are not funny...just pretend they are and laugh!otherwise you make him look silly!and trust me,guys do not like that...one bit! Smiley
17.Text and ring him up.it shows how much you care!

The list goes on and on...

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Please ladies and guys tell me whats the benefit of having a girlfriend, wat is the guy gaining from the relationship or you, this is how most relationships go in naija,
1. You call the girl everyday, she does not call you back, highest she flashes you, then if you dont call you are not caring.
2. Because you tell her you love her, you immediately carry all her burden, buying her this and that, you change her wardrobe, make her hair etc, when u self have a lot of burden on your head, and if u dont do it, you are not caring, or u dont love her, and she does not spend her money on you.



3. When it comes to Being Intimate, then she start preaching, that she is not ready, she wants to wait till she is married, or its against Gods law, or they ask you whether your luv for them is based on sex, that you dont luv them for demanding sex from them.
4. Then after managing you for some time, she dumps you and moves to another guy, or she simply play games at your back.

So please tell me, wats the benefit.

If i spend all this time and money wit my guys, during my trying period they will be there for me. The best thing is wait till you are married then officially her responsibilities are yours, then u would know your investment is secured.

my guy get angry wheneva he call me n i dont pick immediately,he accused of making luv dat y i m not pikking my calls.am tired of dis whole thing wat should i do? Pls no insults   

 





Modernization of Girls
 
 
According to the statistics below---- You were born way to early.
 
1970's : Love me, but don't touch me.
 
1980's : Touch me, but don't kiss me.
 
1990's : Kiss me, but don't do anything more.
 
2000's : Do anything, but don't tell anyone.
 
Since 2011 : Do everything, otherwise I will tell everyone that you can't do anything

Is not uncommon this days to see people saying especially ladies that they fall in love. However even after a short period of time when that thing that appeals to them is no longer there some decided to fall out of love. So in your own opinion fall in love or fallen out of love which is easier?

                 FRAYOBKK

Is it possible to keep that "in-love" feeling in a relationship indefinitely?

A person may get married two or more latter begins to nurture memorys of an ex-luver.they both exchange calls n si each oda.this baffles me n leave a gap in my mind.so am looking 4 a diffrent opinion frm u.