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My boss just told me that he wants me to come to his house..
I never knew this was it.. he gives me money for launch everyday..least 5k. he is someone dat doesnt laugh with anyone and is known in the coy premises as a snob.. my colleagues and other senior boses under him are surprised that he plays with me and is free with me.. whenever a job is not well done and he ask's who is delaying it.. once u kal my name He calms down.. i dont know wat is happening to me.. they are all saying that am using KOP NOR"MI on him.. but nothing... just got a recent promotion and everyone is shouting that am just barely 2yrs in the coy. thou i see some signs, whenever we are auditing a document 2geda.. the way he comes close, the way he touches me whn my job is well done and the countless thumms up and smiles...

is it dat he likes me or... i dont just no. What do i do now that he's invited me.. should i go? even if i go.. the security men, Naval men,and Mopols in his house will see me and definitely spread the news in the office.. this is beyond me ooooooooo
pls i need suggestions..

NO YABBING PLS

Ladies: Can you accompany your Bf/hubby to the saloon for some hair cut?

hey sugar... how have u been?      i checked u couple times still no reply there don't know what happened

This is a true confession from a young guy that need your advice.


I will be 23years old on november 1st,have got a job you might call ''Good For Starters.''

Haven't got a degree yet,but in my 300 level in lasu studing Accounting.

Would say i am mature at heart and can handle human beings.

straight to the point...i have fallen inlove with a very Godly and beautiful young lady who's about nineteen years of age

I think as  a Godly person too i want to do the right thing:i want to settle down.

I want to start my life on time: wanna see my children come of age while am still young..but most especially because am in love

with a Girl that loves me,that can bear my me,and that appreciates me.but i don't have a car of my  own neither do i have a

house..infact i still live with my parent.


with the little you already know about him,do u think he should go ahead? What do u think of his plans? is this wise or not

if it is a bad idea please give reasons

Please pals no insult...thank u all

There are Real Men... and then there are “Boys. Real Men are mature and grounded on a physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual level. They are on a great path and open to growing on a deeply personal level. A Boy will become uncomfortable when he gets too close to his own emotions, or too close to a woman who truly sees him inside and out, for better and worse.

1. A Woman Who Is Playful
2. A Woman Who Is Independent
3. A Woman Who Is “Emotionally Mature”
4. A Woman He’s Intensely ATTRACTED To
Ur Opinions are Highly Welcomed..(what does a mature, REAL man want in a woman?)

without hurting them!!

 peace out:)

Love Letter hmmm

When i was a young Guy,it flattered me alot.And i would just keep them in a box.

Well i guess they are not written these days.Or is it just me?   

Guys,did u ever write letters to girls you were toasting? Why? Were you shy or something? 

Girls?Did love letters work for you? Or just pissed u off? 

I wonder if guys still send those. When there are other ways to to communicate like e-mails,txt messaging etc,   

Share your love letter experiences here!!!


Teeco Designer
AKA Love Mallam

I have a very close friend, during our last chatting, she was asking me if there anything wrong with couple having two bedroom...., when l asked why, she explained that for the pased five yrs, she and her man have been sleeping in different room, and that they 've been living that way, without any problem, but of recent her man started making problems for that...., telling her to move to his own bedroom..., but she really don't buy the idea of having one ..room for both.., she want to maintain it the way it's been; when she told the man there's nothing wrong with that, he said everything is wrong with that..;

But frankly speaking, i don't see anything wrong with her......: Or is there anything wrong with having two bedroom?

If you think or believe you've experienced love, please explain by your own experience, because most of you guys just dey misjive for NP about love.Just to give you an idea about love, some people have been loved before their birth,before the heavens were created, but when the time comes,they'll understand the immeasurable depth of love, and pls dont give me that mushy mushy feeling of love.

A question for both genders.

Guys, do you feel the need to go all out and spend thousands on an engagement ring to please the girl?

Ladies, does the ring or amount spend actually increase how much love you feel for your man?

Lists are for teenagers. And to b quite honest, am tired off these sterrotypes. I dont know of any woman who religiously go thru the list above n hold it as a standard for a guy to maintain. First of all not all women find all in this list appealing! Also, i know ppl have their preferences but a list this long is a lil silly. Finally, even if the list was of the perfect guy, who wants to b with such a guy- how many ppl can measure up and meet his criteria.

Guyz i've been trying to look into this whole thing for some time now and don't knw if i'm right with my judgement. I kinda see it as a way of searching 4 d right one,i mean comparing two things to see what suits u most b4 deciding on which to keep. Like u'll never knw wats out there for u until u go out. What do u guyz think