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41  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: MARRing a naija man..is like marring a madman on: 23-04-2011 02:32 PM
Quote from: HOPEA23 on  4-02-2011 03:49 PM
you know a madman don't have correct sense in his upstair anymore....all he do is talk and talk...that is actually how i compare  some naija men ...they talk and complain too much...take for an example,a married naija man...his wife will spent like 1hour's in a hot kitchen cooking,so her man will see food to eat and after the cooking and bring her man his food,all he will do is complain there is no salt,pepper,or too much salt or he will refuse to eat the food and demand for another type of food[Note:he will not appericate the food...]..some naija men,.why una be like that na..una nor go fit cook ,do anything..all you guys are gud at is nag and nag upon nag...why?/size]

Is that so? How many Nigerian men U don marry abi na person U dey observe for somewhere come dey generalize all of us?
42  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Six Things Men Really Want In Bed on: 23-04-2011 02:24 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 21-04-2011 09:51 AM

Blindfold your partner. Covering his eyes will make him hyper-aware of his other senses.

Nobody is blindfolding me with anything or handcuffing me to anything. Ha! I no fit sout.

43  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: First Bank Introduces Biometric ATMs on: 13-04-2011 01:39 PM
The end is near. No be only biometric. Thank heavens I closed my account with them.
44  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Name five things that will cause you to break up with your partner? on: 7-04-2011 05:33 PM
Quote from: HOPEA23 on  5-04-2011 12:25 AM
Cool Cool Cool

Infidelity, Lies/deceit, uncleanliness, poor people skills, idolatry of any form.
45  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: What should you do if your boyfriend does not like your best friend? on: 7-04-2011 04:58 PM
Quote from: nurabela on  7-04-2011 01:02 AM
What should you do if your boyfriend does not like your best friend?

If Ur bf/gf doesn't like any of ur friends, and U are sure Ur bf/gf loves U, U need to be wary of that person then find out why he/she feels about the person in question.

This advice is best employed if the bf/gf person is emotionally/psychologically stable, otherwise one might for the sake of a gf/bf, who might not stay for ever, loose out on the benefits of those other relationships.
46  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: A delicate situation on: 7-04-2011 04:53 PM
Quote from: seth1in10 on 13-07-2008 07:52 AM

ur girlfriend's best friend has fallen in love with u and wants u to make love to her wat wil u do?



Refuse and tell Ur the best friend to be wary of his gf.
47  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Relationship without Sex. on: 7-04-2011 01:03 PM
Quote from: Sexyjeni on  7-04-2011 10:16 AM
Do u think relationship without sex will last? They are 7 things in this life i know that can make relationship strong: MONEY, LOVE,SEX,UNDERSTANDING,TRUTH,GOOD HEALTH AND TRUST but de most important one is SEx and monEY.
U can make ur relationship last only if u got de right person abi i lie..lol Grin i need ur view about dis can relationship without sex last??

Babe, I don't see FRIENDSHIP, GOOD COMMUNICATION and RESPECT on Ur list and those two would probably influence the quality of a relationship more than anything else.

Good relationships can survive very well without sex. Matter of fact a relationship built on sex will more often have a more turbulent end for those involved.

It takes more than the indiscriminate use of cement to build a good house that is sound in structure.
48  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: What should you do if you are remarried but still in love with your ex? on: 6-04-2011 04:20 AM
Quote from: nurabela on  5-04-2011 06:33 AM
What should you do if you are remarried but still in love with your ex?

Go make dem cast out devils wey wan wreck U from Ur mind.

Seriously dem force U marry abi wetin? Anyhow wey e be, marriage calls for a higher degree of maturity. Wise up before U end up as data for failed marriages statistics.
49  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: SEX MAKES WOMEN FEEL HOTTER BECAUSE........... on: 29-03-2011 04:57 PM
Too much testosterone in a woman also makes her grow a moustach/beard and makes her voice deeper e.t.c Masculine features. That goes to say if U are a woman having sex to feel hot, one day u wont look so hot no more cos U were so high on looking hot U ended up cold.
50  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: are idoma and igbo people related? on: 29-03-2011 04:41 PM
Quote from: funichi on 28-03-2011 07:27 AM
ok so this the situation. I met a  nigerian at a funeral today. He approached me and asked me my name, and I told him,  Ihunayachi Bashari, so he replied, am guessing you must be igbo and a northerner mixture.I say yes, mostly ngwa igbo and hausa. He laughs and says igbo is igbo. I smiled and said i guess so. So after a sec he introduced himself as chinemelu Ezebunnadim. I was like, so you are igbo too, and with a confused look on his face he says no am idoma. I was like what's the difference? And he started telling me this tall tales about how idoma people came from edo and igala  people. I was like okayoo. Personally my family is composed of so many tribes, we are not tribal, but we at least acknowledge the different parts of us. So to not argue I accepted his definition of what idoma is. So I asked him to speak his language and to me he was speaking igbo, a dialect of it, just like my ngwa igbo and  my kano hausa is different from central hausa.Its so weird, so to native igbo speakers please enlighten me, are idomas related to the igbos, cause it makes no sense that you speak the language share names, and even traditions and yet you say there are no relations.Personally I believe we  are all mixed with each other some how..but this guy just looked like i had stoned him by calling him igbo, or at least of having relation to igbos.

The guy was jobbing U. There are similarities within the tribes in Nigeria. Some have more things in common with others.
51  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: what should women know before dating a new man? on: 28-03-2011 01:54 PM
Quote from: HOPEA23 on 26-03-2011 06:46 PM
same question goes to  the guys.....?

Sex is Ur ultimate card. U play it at the wrong time and U reduce Ur chances of having a good deal ASTRONOMICALLY!!!
52  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: ....who are u missing in NAIJAPALS... on: 24-03-2011 09:16 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 24-03-2011 11:18 AM
Wallas,Eagleseyez,Onchedu.....and others who almost stopped signing in here! Undecided


Sweet. Binta I mean Bittersweetr, so U miss me? :">

I'm here. I just am not as active as I used to be, but I'm always one notification away.
53  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Women's Submission Vs Men's Love on: 17-03-2011 08:58 PM
Quote from: truenaija2 on 16-03-2011 09:25 PM
Quote from: onchedu on 16-03-2011 07:44 PM
Quote from: truenaija2 on 16-03-2011 11:26 AM
Quote from: truenaija2 on 15-03-2011 09:03 PM
Quote from: onchedu on 15-03-2011 08:04 PM
I believe those called to submit are wives to husbands. Don't get it twisted.

A good life is a service to God. Wives should submit to their husbands as a service to God, whether the husband shows his love or not. Husbands should love their wives as a service to God whether the wives are submissive or not. At the end we will stand every person alone and God will judge us all. Who has been found faithful in his/her calling as wife or husband will be rewarded.

These instructions were without condition. Abi dem don dey remix Bible?

u r GOD fearing person Cool  infact i give u my sister as wife do fast come pay the bride price while the offer last cos delay is dangerous Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin

@onchendu dis is d comment i mean  Cheesy pls reply

Oh! :"> I'm very flattered. Well if Ur sister is in anyway as sensible as u then I'll be happy to hurry and come and pay the bride price. She doesn't even have to be pretty. Wink

she is very pretty , u dont have to worry about beauty in my family we got it  but my worry is that it shouldnt get into her head she should read her book, she is in LEAD CITY UNIVERSITY in ibadan  and she is young too 18 , i like GOD fearing people i try to get u hooked up with her  Wink i hope it works but if not then its the will of GOD , we stay in lagos i mean she is in lagos for holidays.

I'm currently in Lagos. Cheesy
54  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Gentlemen on: 16-03-2011 08:01 PM
Quote from: HOPEA23 on 15-03-2011 01:37 PM
When you proposing to your gf...will you ask[your gf father..that is if he is still alive]permission to marry his daughter?

ehn? Where is this gf's father from cos for Naija na introduction we dey call that kain thing and man no dey waka go introduction on him own. Him people gats follow go.
55  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Fat Girls VS Slim Girls on: 16-03-2011 07:55 PM
Quote from: Youngstoriez on 15-03-2011 05:51 PM
.......my people, its common abt d arguement concerning fat girls and slim or average girls....anyhow u may refer it, that fat girls are sweeter than slim or average girls or slim Girls are much sweeter than fat ones.....wich can be true or false!! But on the other hand......why do guys mostly enjoy dating slim or average girls.....more than d fat ones?Huh?....but..lot of people say d fat ones can vibrate nd shake the ogueigwu of guys...than slim Girls......but wich one better passs??.....abeg oo....no finish me ooo....na only question i ask!!




What the hell did she do to herself?
56  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Women's Submission Vs Men's Love (Page 23) on: 16-03-2011 07:51 PM
Meanwyl U should ignore some of these people who seem more interested in being right than in learning. Cement wey don set dem no dey recast am until e break and grind and remix with fresh mix.
57  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Women's Submission Vs Men's Love on: 16-03-2011 07:44 PM
Quote from: truenaija2 on 16-03-2011 11:26 AM
Quote from: truenaija2 on 15-03-2011 09:03 PM
Quote from: onchedu on 15-03-2011 08:04 PM
I believe those called to submit are wives to husbands. Don't get it twisted.

A good life is a service to God. Wives should submit to their husbands as a service to God, whether the husband shows his love or not. Husbands should love their wives as a service to God whether the wives are submissive or not. At the end we will stand every person alone and God will judge us all. Who has been found faithful in his/her calling as wife or husband will be rewarded.

These instructions were without condition. Abi dem don dey remix Bible?

u r GOD fearing person Cool  infact i give u my sister as wife do fast come pay the bride price while the offer last cos delay is dangerous Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin

@onchendu dis is d comment i mean  Cheesy pls reply

Oh! :"> I'm very flattered. Well if Ur sister is in anyway as sensible as u then I'll be happy to hurry and come and pay the bride price. She doesn't even have to be pretty. Wink
58  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: CAN YOU LET YOUR SPOUSE IN ON YOUR ACCOUNT BALANCE? on: 16-03-2011 11:19 AM
Quote from: estilizo on 15-03-2011 10:22 PM
   My closest friend broke up with her boyfriend because he is been insisting on knowing her account balance,i wonder why she didnt let him in on it instead of kissing her 3yrs old relationship goodbye.
   Now i want to know your take on this,can you let your boyfriend/girlfriend in on your account balance(bank account),if yes why would you?and if your answer is no,lets know why you cant.

Bf/Gf? E no go happen. Even wife husband sef na with deep understanding and respect for each other otherwise, no show.
59  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Does a woman have to take her husband's last name? on: 16-03-2011 11:08 AM
Quote from: nurabela on 15-03-2011 11:38 PM
If you get married after you become famous do you keep your maiden name or take on the husband's last name?


Anyway, I really would prefer if my wife went by my name irrespective of how famous she is. I don't like those prefix suffix names.

Some people don't mind sha. Anything is possible if U two can agree as one.
60  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Women's Submission Vs Men's Love (Page 20) on: 16-03-2011 11:00 AM
Quote from: truenaija2 on 16-03-2011 10:33 AM
Quote from: onyimau20 on 16-03-2011 10:28 AM
Submission is a key to a succesful marriage/relationship. A submissive wife will willingly adapt to the rights of the husband(not forcefully). Submission does not mean helplessly depending on a man by refusing to accept responsibility or making decisions when necessary. A woman has her obligations and should remain free to carry them out. A wife who perceives her husbands judgement or opinion as wrong or disastrous to the family's welfare, should tell him that and with respect. I think a wise man would appreciate that, cos he wouldnt want to have a doormat as wife. "Submission does not mean slavery" Another aspect of submission is respect, and it should be reciprocated, mutual. It must be carried out by two poeple that are involed.

exactly some people think being submissive is foolishness at detriment of your children's future and at the sole advantage of your husband thanks for explaining

True. Very True. It's sad tho cos instructions are given for our benefit. Some men don't even understand the concept of submission cos they themselves have not submitted to the perfect will of God. Understanding the love of God for us all really makes it easier to submit to God.

A man loving his wife is an act of submission to the will of God. A woman submitting to her husband is a direct service to God.
Neither the spouses are the focus. God is the focus and in doing his will we are blessed.

If U keep Ur focus on another human being U are robbing Urself of blessings and Ur relationship with that person will not be as blessed as it should be. Life is a call to service to God alone and God is a rewarder of those that diligently seek him.

Perseverance and faith are not common virtues

This talk is long... I have things to attend to. Maybe when I'm less busy.

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