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6481  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: love on: 24-01-2009 08:55 PM
Guy, sometimes they just love the guy! Believe that! The rest na bonus!
6482  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Is IT EASY FOR YOU TO MOVE ON? on: 24-01-2009 08:50 PM
Na by force? I no do again!
6483  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: How do you make your relationship work ?? on: 24-01-2009 08:48 PM
Quote from: blackberryPearl on 24-01-2009 08:44 PM
long or short distance?

Nice question. Here's one: Are u down with random sampling? i'm not interested but just wondering, shouldn't relatinships be worth the effort? i mean, anything worth doing is worth doing well. no be so?
6484  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Is IT EASY FOR YOU TO MOVE ON? on: 24-01-2009 08:44 PM
To each his own girl! Do ur thing I'll do mine.
6485  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: love on: 24-01-2009 08:43 PM
Na every question wey enter Ur head U must ask? Good thing be say Osituga go soon move am.
6486  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: love on: 24-01-2009 08:39 PM
Quote from: bjcoool on 24-01-2009 08:18 PM
what really a woman love in a man,is it money or cock.

Grow up guy!
6487  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: wat shud i do? on: 24-01-2009 08:29 PM
Quote from: prettyp on 23-01-2009 08:48 PM
    Actually i stay in benin b4 i n my family relocated to abj,i ve a boyfrnd wen i was in benin,but now ,we re now into distance relationship.he calls n tell me how much he loves me n stuff like dat.i luv him so much too,but at times i feel he is cheating on me.u guys know now,guys TIN no dey stay one place. i jst feel dat he might be going out with other girls ova dere.i find it so so difficult to date any other guy.i jst feel as if he has captured my hrt n locked it inside a chest or sumtin,he promised to marry me,which im not really sure of. dnt knw wat else to tink or do.pls shud i date sumone here n also date him as well.its almost 5mths n we hvnt seen our selves.

Ur getting paranoid. Ur paranoia is born of fear. Fear never produced any good in any situation. Watch and see, U'll probably be the one that ends up cheating on him.
6488  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Is IT EASY FOR YOU TO MOVE ON? on: 24-01-2009 08:09 PM
Quote from: blackberryPearl on 21-12-2008 04:49 AM
break up makes you do a lot of things
but that doesn't mean u still can't be friends
maybe u guys are better off friends
but u just gotta move on

Are u for real? Be friends for what now? That's so typically girlie. u want to eat Ur cake and have it abi? If Ur not together, ur not together. Simple. What's the use holind onto someone U've been deep with (deeper than the casual), if no be say U wan complicate emotins arrange road block for Ur next relationship? Me I no gbadun dis ur talk at all.

It's not easy to move on but it definately WISER to move on. it takes time and in certain cases, U'll probably not forget him/her easily but U've got to.
6489  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: How do you make your relationship work ?? on: 24-01-2009 08:05 PM
U could start by coming into it as a "student..." An eager student seeking first to understand & satisfy Ur partner, meeting his/her needs before seeking to be understood, satisfied or having Ur needs met.

Listening is good; not just hearing what the other says but really understanding what he/she means.

Establishing a good foundation for building on communication till u both get better at it. This includes looking beyond petty differences and fights that will definantely arise as U get to know each other better.

Realising and deciding early what Ur values are in life and if whethere they are similar enough or complementary enough to even starting a relatonship in the first place...

Putting in personal effort to keep the flames of passion burning continuosly. This implies maturity enough to know that its as much Ur s=responsibility to stay "in-love" with him/her, as it is his/hers to keep U in-love and stay in-love with U...

The list is endless... Dem plenty well well. Every1's unique. What worked yesterday myt not work today.
6490  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Would You? on: 24-01-2009 07:48 PM
Quote from: osituga on 25-11-2008 11:54 PM
Would you mind if your bf / gf kept pictures of ex in a drawer?

I've got pictures of my own, so it's ok if she keeps hers. No one kws tmr. If we end up getting married, we could have a burnfire nyt on one of the days of our honeymoon and get rid of such stuff. That should be fun, esp if we're creative about it... like a Nood burnfire. lol!
6491  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: What is virginity worth today? on: 24-01-2009 07:18 PM
Quote from: lonelysnow on 22-01-2009 09:08 PM
Natalie Dylan has put her virginity up for auction; says top bid is $3.8 million

Her top bid comes from a 39-year-old Australian, but she has no immediate plans to settle the auction, she said in a recent interview with CNN.

http://edition.cnn.com/2009/LIVING/01/22/virginity.value/index.html


U mean the first thing on the girls mind about sex is prostitution? Wetin go come happen after she don loose am?
Chei! Wetin this world don turn to?

$3.8m... That could fetch a guy a mini harem of beautiful virgins trained in Kama sutra to sevice him for a lifetime. I no blame her, na the yeye people wey go the auction I blame.
6492  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Its there 100% love in d world now on: 23-01-2009 01:56 PM
Quote from: princemech on 23-01-2009 04:58 AM
Naijapals...can someone have 100% love to his/her partner at d first date ?

I doubt that. Maybe 95% mutual attrraction and instant connection... yes, but not love.
6493  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: segxwal URGE! Who's in control of the emotion, Male/Female? on: 23-01-2009 01:41 PM
Quote from: htweet on 22-01-2009 11:23 PM
A friend told me sometimes ago that the girl he was about to take to bed will never allow him to go further than normal kissing and romancing till it all ended. But majority has to decide to make dis clear so that corrections would be made. Two, then would tangle easily.

Ur friend must have been terrible at kissing and romancing (whatever that means). The idea is to make the lady feel she's in control of the pace and put Ur skills at work and Ur "argo" in check. If he knew how well to kiss a girl, he would have had her begging to take things further in no time. I'm sure he was ene begging to kiss her and letting her choose when he did ALL the time.
Truth is a woman does control but if U r any good at it she'll helplessly hand over all the control to U.
6494  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: After a long relationship my boyfriend hasnt proposed on: 22-01-2009 07:45 PM
Quote from: pprecious18 on 15-01-2009 04:20 PM
Hi Pals, i need your advice, i am into a relationship with a guy for 4 years now, he is not talking about marriage, can i ask him what the relationship is all about. No insult pls.

Maybe U should have a "sit down" with him. What U girls call a "heart to heart." U'll not know if he's thinking along that liine unless U ask. Maybe he's comfortable with the way things are and unless U tell him how U feel about the way they are, he'l just assume U'r as comfy as he is. Talk to him instead of asking us. We're not a bunch of babalawos.
6495  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Its salvation time!! on: 22-01-2009 06:12 PM
I hear U loud and clear!
6496  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: If He/She comes to say sorry, will you give d 2nd CHANCE? on: 22-01-2009 02:37 PM
Yes! But that comes with the condition that the apology comes in good time. There's always an acceptable period for an apology to be valid. It varries from person to person.
Secondly, she's got to mean it. I'm not into lip service.
6497  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: she doesn't want sex again what shld i do on: 22-01-2009 02:32 PM
Hold Body!
If that no fit work, go hustle money marry her, if U like her pass the sex;
6498  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Why do girls have stupid speciality? on: 22-01-2009 02:15 PM
Hmmm...
6499  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Who is the most arrogant naijapal you've met? on: 22-01-2009 12:07 PM
 Cool
6500  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: i am tired of being a flirt on: 22-01-2009 12:02 PM
Quote from: kutieme on 16-01-2009 08:57 AM
im 21 and i ave slept with uncountable guys,i dnt knw if its for fun or i am cursed.i want to stop cos im nt finding it funny anymore,bt i jst can't help it .pls i nid ur advice................................................

Uncountable guys? Form wan kpai U... Levels!!!

Okay seriously, U need deliverance or therapy or something. Can't help U.
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