To the ladies! guys feel free to add opinions.
A lady has two guys in her life, let's say she is double dating, and she cares about these guys. The first guy is less ambitious, but really cares so much for her. He is romantic as well! The problem with the first guy is that he has no future! no sound education, no job, no talent.. when she brings up a business idea he ignores her saying "Baby I've got plans"
The second guy is extremely focused, he has bright future ahead. He is less romantic... all he talks about is school, school, school.. he will rather watch 'discovery health channel' when he should be spending time with the girl. He cares about her too, but is career comes first.
If you were this lady which of the guys will you choose, have in mind that both guys are willing to spend the rest of theri lives with you.
Its up to the girl now... What does she want later in life, success with possibility of little or no romance, or love and romance with the possibility of no success. Mind you, Some things arent as important later as they appear to be now and with the prper form of motivation, any man will find passion enuf to earn good money. Choose Ur pick!